i had a long distant relationship for 4 months and saw my boyf every 2- 3 weeks something hasnt felt right and i suspected him of cheating as for the last week he never returned my calls rang when he said he would and switched off his phone on valentines,i confronted him and he denied it,when he was in the shower i saw some texes on his phone from other females,they were very flirtasious,i asked him again he denied it so i dropped the matter,when he left i told him what i saw on his phone and he went mad,saying they were just mates,last night he ended it saying i betrayed his trust by going through his phone,i did it to set my mind at ease,he doesnt understand that,he says he wants to be mates and take it from there,i really care for him and want to be with him but i cant wait forever.i dont know if he's leading me on or what.
2007-02-19 22:20:40 · 8 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to say but I think he's a player and you certainly don't need it or deserve it, try and get over him and find another guy who is gonna love you and not have secret text messages from you, that is a sure fire way of knowing he is up to no good. Long distance relationships can work, my husband works away from home 6 weeks at a time and is home for normally 2-3 weeks every hitch, we've been together 10 years and we are happier now than we have ever been. Good luck to you, I know you find someone worthy of you.
2007-02-19 23:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by DikiDoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you!!! As soon as you see this the better. You can do alot better than him and the right person will come soon and they will treat you like a queen. Dont wait around for this creep he is playing mind games and leading you on. Show him that you are in control and he aint worth waiting for. If he likes you that much he will respect your feelings and come crawling back with his tail between his legs
2007-02-19 22:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Clare G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my view/ If he'a not wanting you to be close to his "Bidness"? Then you need to take yours, on down the Road. It's suppose to be "Love". And it's suppose to be respect. And he seems to be out of respect for you. Step out of the Picture, for a time. See how he reacts. It should get him to talk. The Best of "Love" to ya!
2007-02-19 22:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he is putting it about all over!
There is no smoke without fire,he must be encouraging these girls for them to be sending him flirtatious texts,dump him and find someone closer to home.
2007-02-19 22:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is leading you on. And his anger is because he's been caught. You're worth more than that. All he's going to give you is lies and time with him when he's not with the others.
2007-02-19 22:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is leading you on. Tell him that you cant wait forever.
2007-02-19 22:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think it is time that you moved on with your life....find someone who is closer in distance....long distance relationships are never easy....good luck
2007-02-19 22:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did invade his privacy, and you have no evidence that he did anything wrong. You should ask him for forgiveness
2007-02-19 22:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋