Why haven't i got over him yet?
why after 6 yrs i still haven't got over my ex ? he found someone 2 mths after i broke up with him and got married already and i still haven't found anyone and very lonely. how can people get over someone so quickly we were together for 7 yrs . I haven't been lucky in love and all i do is think about him all the time? do u think i still am in love with him or just lonely?
2007-02-19 22:17:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're only human, and humans are all different. Don't compare your relationships to his because it'll only put you down. Set your own goals and get out there! Maybe you're not ready to date yet, and there's no problem with that. You'll eventually find someone and don't worry! Enjoy being single for now, and time will tell what will happen.
You might still be in love with him but you might just be lonely, that's up to you to be honest about.
I don't think you're being honest with yourself because you're too busy thinking about his love and relationships. Stop worrying about him, as hard as it is, and think about your happiness and eventually it will come! Calm down, and good luck. Everything will work out for the best.
REMEMBER! Give yourself time to heal, every breakup is painful. Don't rush things and pamper yourself at your own pace.
2007-02-19 22:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by help:( 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A combo of jealousy and anger may have created an elixer of false love and eternal vengence, unless you take it upon yourself to realize this, you may continue to struggle with it.
My answer is, you are just lonely and even if you did love him, he's moved on. I know it hurts, but you probably never liked him to begin with.
2007-02-19 22:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?6 years had past since then?come on girl..get yourself a break.Don't cry over spilled milk.but i understand you.you were together for 7 years,i think your just lonely.find someone else.when one doors closes for you,another big doors open.who know there's someone out there waiting for you,he is just waiting for you to move on,before he takes the move...so cheer up!live life to the fullest
2007-02-19 22:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need some counseling - someone who can coach you on directing your thoughts onward, not backward. Are you going to waste your life sobbing over your ex?
2007-02-19 22:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just lonely
2007-02-19 22:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋