I have a boyfriend, and I can see us being together forever he is soo perfect. but when i'm with him and his friend. I really seem to like his friend a lot too. I talked to his friend and he likes me to. My boyfriend does get on my nerves sometimes and hates some of my actions. his friend likes everything about me, but i think he might just want sex. what should I do??
2007-02-19 21:53:27 · 15 answers · asked by clev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all he does to annoy me is poke me a lot, which i find cute sometimes because he smiles and giggles when i freak out. but he does it a lot. and i'm not sure if his friend only wants sex, thats just a thought. his friend seems really amazing in every way.
2007-02-19 21:59:56 · update #1
>>I was thinking about staying with my boyfriend, hoping for forever if that is at all possible and if it isn't then going after his friend. But what if his friend isn't into me anymore?? <<<
2007-02-19 22:10:26 · update #2
It's natural. When we love someone, or think we love someone, our minds can create perfect dreams that make us feel "Yes! He is the one for me. We can be perfect always together". It's natural. I do that all the time.
You boyfriend getting on your nerves is very natural. There is no-one in this world who will like all our habits. Your boyfriend feels close to you and therefore, he tells you that, whereas your boyfriend's friend seems to like all your actions, right? Hahaha. That is not true. As I said, it is impossible for anyone to like all our actions in this world. And if you think they do, it is just a pretendance. Some people just pretend to like all our habits, because they are not as close and want to be. However, if your boyfriend's friend is very close to you, he probably just tries to show you he likes everything of you, maybe because he does just want to have sex. Unless, he deosn't know much about you.
Whatever it is, do not go to your boyfriend's friend. His friend is probably jealous that your boyfriend has such a lovely girl like you.
Remember, never break your current relationships because of others. Put your boyfriend in your place, and yourself in your boyfriend's place. How would you feel?
2007-02-19 22:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wowzer. Your first sentence seems so sweet and then the rest of the statement/question kinda makes it worthless. What a predicament you're in.
I'm thinking that you should probably break up with your boyfriend and play the field. There's no way you're able to be serious about anyone right now when you have such notions. You can't have your cake and eat it too. No matter how tasty the icing looks! Remember to practice safe sex too would ya? No sense in dying over sex, right? Good luck to ya!
2007-02-19 21:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Renny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he wants to have sex. Of course he likes you - his friend likes you! Obviously, your guy isn't "perfect", but there is no such thing as perfect. No guy is - your bf's friend isn't either. If you go out with your boyfriend's friend, you will lose your boyfriend forever and you won't have his friend either because he won't be able to go out with you once his friend chews him out for stealing his girlfriend. You will end up with no boyfriend at all.
Think about this: How would you feel if your best friend and your boyfriend ended up dating - or even just having sex?
2007-02-19 22:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait...
I'm having trouble comprehending the fact that your boyfriend is so perfect and you can picture being with him forever, yet he annoys you. I don't understand this, since you are contradicting yourself.
Sit back and examine your relationship. If you have feelings for his friend, you need not be in this current relationship. Judging by your dilemma, I'm guessing that you're young (under the age of 18), and you honestly should be focusing on your studies.
2007-02-19 22:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough... sounds like something I've been in before... I went for the friend... and it was just sex, that was the first time I had a situation like that. The second time I had a situation like that they both wanted nothing but sex... well they were married and one wanted me more than the other, but anyway. For your situation... I would go with your heart... I always go with my heart and my head... what are they telling you...? Another thing you have to ask yourself is... of you breaking up with your b/f to go out with his friend his going to break up there friendship... can you handle that?
2007-02-19 22:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tigerlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy can like his friends girlfriend to a extent that he can tell her behind his friends back , then probably the guy aint a nice enough person to get involved with because good ppl dont do such things , he just wants to sleep with you , i cant beleive u are having such thoughts , you urself are a bad person . if u wanna cheat on ur bf than do , but it wont be right , atleast it will be good for ur bf , he will come to noe that both his friend and gf are jerks
2007-02-19 21:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by guru ji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've probably guessed correctly; this guy is after sex and may desert after he's had it, but he may also stay on thereafter. No one can say for sure, not even he himself. The game of love is much like playing the lottery. You may win, but bear in mind that it is easier to lose than to win.
2007-02-19 22:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by Paleologus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM A MAN, AND I THINK IT WOULD BE WRONG TO BREAK UP AND TRY IT WITH HIS FRIEND JUST TO SEE IF THERE WAS A CONNECTION, MOST LIKELY HE IS AFTER YOU FOR THE SEX, BUT PLEASE DON'T DO THAT BECAUSE THAT WOULD BREAK YOUR B/F HEART BIG TIME, IT WILL BE WITH HIM FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE....NO OFFENSE TO THE LADIES BUT ALOT OF WOMEN DO THAT AND THAT REALLY SCARS A MAN FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. BUT IF HE TRULY GETS ON YOUR NERVES FROM TIME TO TIME THEN I GUESS BREAK UP WITH HIM.........BUT DON'T GO AFTER HIS FRIEND.
2007-02-19 22:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should feel comfortable & supported by ur boyfriend all the time no matter wat. If u think that he s just wit u for the sex, ur prolly rite. So if i were u id get outta that relationship ASAP, but if dont want to, just write a list wit the good n bad things, see wat there r more of...
2007-02-19 21:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets on your nerves ,then he isn't perfect for you.
End one relationship b4 starting another.
2007-02-19 21:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by snicks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋