The thing of it is: before we were together 7 months, we had been good friends for 12 years. We broke up and things have been terrible ever since. I miss him, and I want to say I'm sorry. Just wanted opinions. I'm not trying to get back together, just say I'm sorry. This is long. I'm using Myspace because it's the only way.
2007-02-19 21:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by firefly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I’ve gotten this far without being deleted, I’m doing alright. I realize that this is undoubtedly long and out of the blue, but I sincerely ask that you read through it before deleting it.
Myspace is such a cheap way of doing things, but even this is ridiculously hard for me, and I’m still typing. You’re reading this right now wondering where in the world this is coming from. Well, the thing of it is, I really screwed up our friendship and I wanted to simply say that I’m sorry.
2007-02-19 21:48:35 · update #1
Why has this taken me almost three years to say? Partly because I didn’t know what I had done, but largely because I’ve been a coward. Even beginning this letter I was trembling because of how scared I was of your reaction. I’ve greatly wanted to talk to you for a while, but every time I think about my deserved reaction, I shut down the idea. Also, it’s pretty likely that you just don’t care anymore and are wondering why I do. I’ve come to terms that I deserve what ever potential mocking or angry words that you may have.
The honest thing of it is, I miss the idea of being friends. I am in no way asking for your friendship, I’m just explaining where this is coming from. I hate how anytime we accidentally bump into each other how I can feel resentment. I spent a long time asking why this was. At Kristen and Brian’s wedding, we were all right again and I was elated. Then we were back to awkward hellos
2007-02-19 21:49:04 · update #2
I didn’t treat you fairly. I’m sorry. When we were dating and I wanted to call it off, I gave you the wrong reasons. It wasn’t because of Colin or anything, but just minor things in our relationship that I was selfish and immature and scared to tell you the truth. I was unwilling to make sacrifices and I didn’t tell you what was going on in my head with us and I left you hurt and confused. Not to mention not talking the following summer and early on in the next year dating Colin. It was never supposed to be that way, but it was.
So, now, because of my immaturity, I feel like I need to apologize to you. Again, this may mean nothing, but you deserve to have it said. I’m sorry. I’m sorry that because of my actions we can no longer be friends. I’m sorry because I can never over hear someone talking about you and feel sadness about how things turned out. I’m sorry that I ever hurt you and I’m sorry it took me so long to say.
2007-02-19 21:49:26 · update #3
hope life is treating you excellently. I hope that I didn’t do something wrong in writing this and I hope I didn’t leave anything out. Most of all, I hope you know that I regret how I things turned out and I’m sorry. Take care, and God bless.
2007-02-19 21:49:57 · update #4
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So, I sent it everyone. Thanks for all of your support. I felt really stupid and reluctant when I read something on his page talking about his ex after me how she was the first girl he ever loved. Ouch, huh? lol Well, none the less, I did it. Figured I'd wait a little longer to chose an answer so I can give anyone who's curious an update. Peace out.
2007-02-20 08:35:01 · update #5
It seems like a very heartfelt apology. I would send it if I were you. You already know the worst outcome. If he cares about you at all, he'll at least accept your apology. Your friendship might never go back to where it was, but at least you'll have cleaned your side of the street.
2007-02-19 21:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good. I think you should send it, regardless of the response or lack of one. If Colin is the reason you broke up, yeah, you should feel bad. If not, I don't see why your friendship couldn't recover. It really depends on how your relationship closed.
2007-02-19 22:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by someone or other 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you should as it will give you closure on a sorry period in your life and will probably allow you to move on. Don't expect any reply from your ex b/f, but at least you've said what you want to and got it off your chest.
2007-02-19 21:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the latter!!!! it's great very sincere and apologetic. i Will be surprised if he doesn't reply :)
good luck, fingers crossed for you :)
2007-02-19 22:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by zee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should say sorry but thing will never b better what my exeprience says
2007-02-19 21:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After all this time...why bother?
Don't waste yer time!
2007-02-19 21:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by impossiblemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good to let it all out:)You can forgive but can you forget?
2007-02-19 21:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its tooooo long to read.......kindly shorten dat !!!
2007-02-19 21:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋