I've been dating this girl for a month and a half since January. Early this month she said she didn't want to date me anymore. But a day or so later we went out again. A week later she tells me she was "with (sex)" her ex right before she tried to break it off with me. She thought at the time that she didn't want to see me anymore, so she thought it would be ok. At that time, I thought we were still dating. I'm not sure if what she did is wrong or not, but it hurts like hell thinking about what she did. We are still seeing each other, but she always says she's not sure what she wants, and that she doesn't want to be dating.
I know i should not see her anymore cause of what she did, but I'm too into her. When I'm with her i'm really happy but at the same time hurt cause of what happened.
What should I do?
2007-02-19 21:37:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with that ***** immediately. Sorry, but she's a *****. If she really cared about you, she wouldn't be ******* someone else. She says she's not sure what she wants and that she doesn't want to date, right? That's code for, "I just want to ****." That means you're in for even more pain if you don't break it off. Sorry to be negative and all, but that's how it is. If you didn't want to hurt someone and you wanted to just have fun and have sex with different people, what would you say? It'd probably be, "I don't know what I want, but I don't want to be dating." Sorry man, but she doesn't deserve you to begin with. If she did, she wouldn't be ******* around or even wanting to.
2007-02-19 21:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by someone or other 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are into her that much wouldn't you be happier if she felt the same way about you? put yourself in her shoes what would you want to do if you were in her situation, ( clear you head) does she want to be with you or not? ask the question or take a brake if you don't you'll be more hurt than you already are.
2007-02-19 21:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by zee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you have a confused bunny she want the cake and icecream with it to. did you ever think she was playing you or matter of fact don't play yourself if she don't want to be in relationship let her go you can still be friends after that you gotta be like ray charles and let it do what it do baby what ever happens happens but dont set yourself up for another let down
2007-02-19 21:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by simply expressive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just find some1 else she is not d 1 who deserve ur love.Who knows she will not do it again?
2007-02-19 21:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right complicated but do what you feel is right. good luck.
2007-02-19 21:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋