i am having doubts about a guy i have just started seeing coz he doesnt seem to be very clever. Is this really mean and snobbish or does anyone else feel the same sometimes
2007-02-19 21:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by Carrot 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is really sweet and seems to adore me. I do like him but not too sure if its just coz i not been in a relationship for a while that im worrying too much
2007-02-19 21:51:45 · update #1
Reckon everyone does from time to time! Everyone's different and has different experiences and knowledge to use. Focus on the other qualities he has that other, more clever guys, might not have (humility, kindness, cooking, *other* ;-)) etc.
2007-02-19 21:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Andy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts and feeling that this isnt right, I would suggest you back of and either slow things down or end them now. The longer this goes on the deeper either or both parties will get hurt. If you feel he is not right for you spare him and you the pain. I wouldnt say you were mean or snobish, you just know what you want!
2007-02-19 22:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not mean - how do you expect to hold any kind of a conversation with someone with lower intelligence than yourself? it's a cruel fact and probably a big contributing factor to why more women in their 30's are single - men aren't clever enough!
2007-02-19 21:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by kate e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't mean, nor is it snobbish, it is your intuition telling you that this is not the right one for you. Better to break it off now than lead him on.
2007-02-19 21:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...if thats how you feel you should move on. Its not snobbish at all!
2007-02-19 21:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Liz S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not mean. I was seeing a guy who would always say how smart I was even when it was just common sense and finally I realized that he thought I was so smart because he was so dumb.
2007-02-19 21:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by ginger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take some time to reach in a solid decision. u r the best person urself to take the decision.
2007-02-19 21:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Difi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its snobbish.. its normall to feel that way sometimes.
2007-02-19 21:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by laney s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt, just shoot! lol...just kidding...but foreal, when your having doubts you should let him know and then move on! That what I do!
2007-02-19 21:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you start having doubts, it is time to move on.
2007-02-19 21:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋