I’m in a relation 4 abt a yr now.We have commited but 4m d very begining I was always hesitant 2 give full commitment But somehow I did. Hesitation mainly originated 4m my choice of gf.I always hoped 4 some1 wid lots of personality & seriousness.But she’s good in her diff. way.She’s cheerful,youthful,and a lot dependant on me.When I’m wid her I miss the personality I hoped 4 in my gf and if I try 2 lessen contacts , I cant explain how much I miss her.Moreover I am a very good looking man while she is very avg. Initially looks wernt imp. 2 me but these days(I curse myself for this)when I c gudlkn girls I miss the looks in her.Now I’m afraid whether with this kind of feelings I wud be able 2 give my 100% to her,.But I cant stay without her either and feel I am bluffing her.Even if I get ovr my feelings I feel Ill never be happy with even a good girl,4 the thought that I ditched my gf wud play in my mind.But even by stayin in the rltn life seems boring.shd i date widout teln her?PL HLP.
2007-02-19 21:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by jontro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry for my typing but i had to fit it within 1000 characters.
2007-02-19 21:51:14 · update #1
all relationships have their 'ups and 'downs - sometimes it looks to those in a long term relationship that others around you are having more 'fun, excitement' and all the other things we all crave for, if you really care for or love your partner, then it is worth 'working' on the relationship and letting her know how you feel.
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2007-02-19 21:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a common behbr in human beings ,they r never happy wid what they get.But I personally think that its not her fault that she is avrg.and u r good looking.But also a reltn.cant servive when their is doubts,unfaithfullness.hope u ppl r not married?then its d best u tell her the truth and part.coz like this u will only adjust .u said u love her then accept her how she is.I have seen lots of good lookin girls who r just a fake.and talk about personality,then its not imp.what imp. is her hurt and feelings which she have 4 u.decition is urs i can suggest u only.
2007-02-20 05:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the real.......You shouldn't front like that. I think it would be better if you leave her. because once those feelings that your feeling come into play its pretty much just going to fail. Yeah, in a relationship theres its up's and down's but its different when your love is not the same for her as it once was. and you shouldn't pretend that you do like her and love her......because once your in your car or whatever by yourself you'll be beating yourself. The truth is Always better. Trust me. you should be able to find a woman who fills all your expectations. and same with her. But don't ever cheat on your woman because. what goes around comes around. and that's in the Bible, and when it does come back to you it hurts like a motha (watch your mouth).
2007-02-20 05:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u sould not date without telling her, she deserves to be with someone who wants to b with her and will love her back in return.
I think if your heart is not in it u should think about seperation, although it will seem u will b hurting her, in the long run its probably better for her, she can find someone who will love her for her
2007-02-20 05:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by mel_leno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never no what you have until you loose it. Who knows the grass on the other side might turn out to be nothing but weeds.
2007-02-20 05:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by zbob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a slim-ball she would be better off without ever seeing you again.
2007-02-20 05:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by lalanmeyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your girlfriend a favour - dump her. She can then get someone who appreciates her for something other than looks.
2007-02-20 05:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by celianne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to write properly. This is not a cellphone.
2007-02-20 05:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for first, learn your grammar, if you don't have time to type correctly , how could you possibly have time to find answers to your problems?? small details , make a long way
2007-02-20 05:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by breeze_over_stormy_ground 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself, your in a relationship grow up and be a man!!!!!!
2007-02-20 05:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋