so this guy was such a jerk to me.He called me half way across the continent and impled that he wants to get married.I move to his country primarily to be close to him but to also study and he completely shuts me out.Then we see each other like three times in the entire year that i was there.So i completely shut him out.when i left i did not say good bye.I email him for the newyear but he did not reply.I really feel like calling him.The other day i was looking at my diary and feeling like i lost him.I am confused.I miss him but i also hate him for making me feel bad.What should i do
2007-02-19 21:15:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when u come to the last page, close the book.
2007-02-19 21:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the key here is that you said he implied that he wanted to get married. I think that you acted too hastily by moving to be near him based upon something that was implied only. I think that he backed off because you were thinking that he wanted to get married, whereas in reality, I do not think he wants to get married at all because if he did ,he would not have backed down Just be glad that it worked out as it did. That was not a strong enough commitment made to you to sustain a marriage.Move on with your life, he is obviously not into you or he would have responded. I am sorry for I do not mean to sound harsh just wanted you to see the reality of what is going on.
2007-02-20 05:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you owed him a good-bye just like he owed you the respect for what you did, you didn't get what you wanted, now why should you feel bad about giving him what he deserved. Let it be, shake it off and continue on with your life, with no regrets but the contentment with knowing you didn't just stand for anything you stood for something.
2007-02-20 05:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
glad to know you learned the lesson of not doing permanent damage when you are mad.
next time just take time to cool off or talk to him or anyone if you have a problem.
you probably really hurt him. but if you dont think he's right for you then move on.
2007-02-20 05:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't contact him. If you were in his country for a year and he ignored you, then he is not worth your time. You may feel sad for a while but you are better off without him.
2007-02-20 05:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to bragg, but when I treat girls the way he was treating you, its because I am NOT interested. Trust me, when a guy is not diong the chasing he does not like you.
2007-02-20 05:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chalk it up to experience!
2007-02-20 05:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by lalanmeyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap as hard as you can,then,hug as hard as you can.he will be moved,tears in his eyes.you havent seen any bollywood movies??????
2007-02-20 05:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by harsha v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it be and just say goodyby!
2007-02-20 05:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋