2007-02-19 21:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by lakshmidevi1027 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably not. Reasoning? In most cases, women being friends with ex-boyfriends and such turns out bad. It's not to say that you're a bad person or anything, but women tend to be corrupted by certain things. Something happens that brings him down, you try to be there as a friend and end up having sex with him. There are a lot of things that could end the same way. If you're not married and don't have a boyfriend or whatever then you shouldn't worry as much, but if you are, you should avoid him. Then again, if he was a good guy and you don't think he'd take advantage of you, go for it. It really depends on the person. Guys aren't all about sex all the time. Some of them are, but it really just depends. I think women are weakened to sleeping with another guy 90% of the time. It's not because they want to, either, it's really just because they're compassionate and want to show that they care. Sometimes guys take advantage of that and initiate sex. If you can see him taking advantage or anything like that, then no. You shouldn't even be friends.
2007-02-19 21:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by someone or other 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure but only a friends with a certain extent. Unless you have other intentions though. But if you don't, just make it casual because he might have other things in mind when he sees you again, or might bring up odd situations because of your past together. I actually don't prefer seeing an ex if I still have an ounce of feelings left. On the other hand, if I'm going be be just friends with him, if and only if I am totally free of feelings for my ex whether I've been single or is happy with my new boyfriend. No strings attached.
2007-02-20 05:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should take it slowly, especially if you have a lot of chemistry with this person, if it was sexual and/or if you two were in love. 3 months is not a lot of time to get over someone so just be clear on what you really want (with yourself first) and then with him. Do what feels comfortable to you, whether it is talking to him on the phone for awhile first, or actually seeing him in person, whatever feels comfortable for you and what you are trying to do. Good luck
2007-02-20 05:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends can be lovers but lovers can't be friends. Be honest withyourself and the people on the web, what is it that you want? If you wanted friendship u wuld not be lookink at an ex lover.
2007-02-20 05:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your ex 4 a reason if u feel comfortable enuf bein friends then b friends
2007-02-20 05:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya how know !!!
your asking permission and if thats the case then your lost!
2007-02-20 05:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how bad he srewed you over.
2007-02-20 05:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you asking everyone?dont u know silly
2007-02-20 05:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by harsha v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! why did he go? tell him to go away
2007-02-20 05:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋