what are my action? To do her biding .Will that tall her how I feel?

Answer 1

No, if you just do her bidding you are a puppet she will not respect you.

She will view as week and eventually dump you for a "stronger" man that will stand up to her if she wrong and tell her what she needs to hear when you doesn't want to hear it if it is for her own good because you truly care about and not put up with crap when it is not warranted.