...your not as active as he is? is there a possibility that he would look for another partner who is as sexually active as he is? or would he fall out of live with you?
He claims that he loves you and doesn't stick around just for sex.
2007-02-19 20:23:12 · 10 answers · asked by bebe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is absolutely attractive, intelligent, witty all in all a great guy!
he is in his mid 20's
2007-02-19 20:44:50 · update #1
if he loves you no. sit him down and tell him how you feel. we cant read your mind. make sure you let him know it not that you find him unattractive you are just not always in the mood. but if you don't talk about your feeling he will think 1 something is wrong with him. 2 is she with some one else. if you feel unattractive let him know. again we can read your minds. as long as your true feelings are there he will understand. we love you ladies not the sex.
2007-02-19 20:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by jonathan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BeBe (that's my nickname too) if he really loves you than he would understand if you are not ready to have sex or if you don't feel right about it. My ex-boyfriend really cared about me and he was my first love and we are still friends to this day, but we broke up because I no longer wanted to have sex with him. I felt like what we were doing was wrong and he respected that, we broke up because he still wanted to have sex and I didn't because of my beliefs. It was hard at first, but now I'm glad that I did it. You should always value your own beliefs and values, don't change your core self for anybody because in the long run you will be miserable. There are some things you compromise on, but what you truly believe in, that's what you don't compromise on. If he goes out the door, than let him, but talk to him first about how you feel and what's important to you and stay true to what's important to you.
2007-02-19 20:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chick...
You just admitted one of the scariest things...
You say that you're not as active as him.
So if he's into plenty sex and you're into not so much sex then who is he having all that sex with??
You need to be careful
Sex can be addictive and a BBC study recently showed that for women its 80% emotion 20% physical
While for men its 80% physical and 20% emotion.
But its your b/f.. who am I to give you advice when you know him better than I do..
Good luck dear
ily!
2007-02-19 20:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's asking you for sex it's because he wants to have that connection with you. If there are other problems in the realtionship it's possible he may go elsewhere but if he's told you that's not why he sticks around then i think you have to trust him. If you're feeling pressured or uncomfortable then i think you should talk to him about it nad explain what your feeling and ask his opinion on it. I think you also have to consider why you don't want to be active with him.
2007-02-19 20:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no pill is going to artwork for you and the patch possibly won't the two. the shot would desire to artwork yet i've got heard no longer something stable approximately it. look into an IUD (some Dr's will place one whether you haven't any longer had a baby) Condoms, spermicides, diaphragms, sponges, the hoop in all hazard. i'm hoping this enables yet consult with a doctor. additionally intercourse would reason bladder infections....it happens to me a minimum of two situations a year.
2016-10-16 02:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him good sex everytime make him exhausted and he wont ask for to much
My current bf warned me that he is totally crazy about sex and that he thinks that it is the most wonderful thing ever, but im giving him good times which in the ends leaded to that i want more that what he wanted in the begining
2007-02-19 23:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say NO firmly. if u arent ready, explain to him. guys can be like that all the time. it depends on you. you have the right to remain safe. it's up to you if you do want to do it with him. sex isnt just a game and it sometimes takes a piece of mind into it. if you;re not ready yet, just say NO. it's sometimes against the rules for someone not married yet to do this especially when u're 18 or below.
2007-02-19 20:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by ammie sama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a quality sex not by quantity. If he's telling the truth, then he'll stick around.
2007-02-19 20:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by exo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information...would depend on his age and level of "experience" if younger and really not that experienced, he likely means it, but if older and more experienced, if is a warning sign if you don't put out, don't blame him if he cheats on you. Not right, but that is how guys think.
2007-02-19 20:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are crazy. Are you the one having sex w/ him? If you don't like it, then YOU are the crazy one in the relationship.
P.S. Do you have crazy eyes??
2007-02-19 20:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by legallyblonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋