I fell in love with a man...deeply in love. I made a mistake when I was angry and broke up with him to try to fix my mistake the best I could.
I hurt sooo bad, I love him so much. When I see him I cant handle the pain of seeing him. I even over dosed the other night after I saw him it hurt so bad. I wanted to die.
Please tell me how to get over this. I know we will never be together. He is still sweet to me but we know its over because of my mistake.
2007-02-19 20:16:01 · 11 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-22 11:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love is such a powerful thing it can take you high up into the skies or down way down. I`ve been down there and if it weren`t for her child wanting a hug before I left I probably wouldn`t be here today. I found that I had to love myself before I could appreciate anything else. Its not as easy as it sounds. When your really down you pick yourself apart. It appears that you would probably exist happier if you weren`t to see him. You need to heal. Depending on how severe your mistakes were would lengthen the healing time. Just to get back to a somewhat normal existance can seem at times impossible. There is a perpose for you to still being here with us. In your heart you know that you can do better. Show yourself and others what a jem you can be. But most of all hang in there. Why ? As low as I was Iam now reaching for the stars. It takes others to see your good qualities. Look deep into yourself to find them no matter how hidden they are. Hold onto the good and push away the bad. Time has a way of healing all wounds if you let it. I truely wish you the very best as I believe you can do it. You may discuss this further if you like.
2007-02-19 20:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You need to see a professional counselor as soon as possible if you are "overdosing" anything as it is not a normal part of grief or a healing process and find out why and what is within you that caused you to become angry with and break up with him and there is no hope for reconcilation or happiness in the future because you are only doomed to repeat the mistake.
2007-02-19 20:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Stop talking about him and move on!!! Don't be psycho and talk about him and ask questions that involve him on the net... And don't use the overdose thing as a means to get attention... You will just give yourself that nickname everyone calls you when your not around!!! You messed up so learn and move on!!! Good luck
2007-02-19 20:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by ESAVVY1 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Grit your teeth and move on! It does not matter where , just determine that YOU WILL SURVIVE! Life hurts sometimes, but the endgame is up to you. You can make it if you choose. Some of us are weaker than others. We need to feel cherished. Face the fact that that it doesn't always happen but life goes on. Where there is life there is hope. Hold on to it!
2007-02-19 20:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by BlueLotus 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Tell him what you told us , and be honest that you love him and see a future for both of you.
You made a mistake own up to it and get on with life with or without boyfriend.
2007-02-19 20:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i think u should tell him about how u feel and ask for a patch up i made a mistake like that before and i tell my ex boyfriend about it and when i tell him how u feel then u ask for a patch now my ex boyfriend and i are getting along well and i dunno whether my answer could give u a clue but i guess that u try every thing to win back your boy friend heart... =P
2007-02-19 20:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
if its true love... itll happen.. jus give urself n him time.... dont be impatient to make it work rite away......so u made wateva mistake, im sure he knows it.. he jus needs time as well to register n deal with it...... if he loves u as much as u do him hes feelin the same emotions u are rite now.. so yeah give it a lil time n waitt.. be patient...... itll work out if its meant to be !
2007-02-19 20:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by I V X 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Does he know all that you've said here? He may forgive eventually, but it really depends on your mistake.
2007-02-19 20:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by kittycat123 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
YOU CAN'T TURN BACK TIME!!
Sorry but it's true! I know it hurts you but you need to move on. Hit the clubs and stop moaning about it! good luck!
2007-02-19 20:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
there is nothing you can do...just live... it will get better after a while...just accept the fact that he is not mad at you
and OD wont do anyone no good... especially yourself
just live
2007-02-19 20:25:24 · answer #11 · answered by kanyapaymibillz 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋