I had really strong feelings for this guy I worked with & liked him so much for so long. We had a very short fling. Then he got a really serious girlfriend. She was jealous of me because he had to be around me. She hates me.
9 months later, I confessed I still had feelings for him. He listened, was understanding & not upset for telling him.
Weeks later, he tells me him & his GF broke up. We ended up hanging out & we hooked up a few times. Then I find out they were still together. I told him & he confessed to his GF. She broke up with him. I realized this guy was a lying cheating player!
A month ago, we start talking. We had sex on New Years. I know he's a jerk, I don't want a relationship, but the sex is always really good, I figure he's single, I'm single, we both know it's just for fun, no strings, so why not? We slept together again. Then I find out he had gotten back with the GF. He cheated on her AGAIN WITH ME. Why? What do I do, I don't want him to get away with this.
2007-02-19 19:36:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, he has no idea that I know he's cheated on her again. He thinks I still think he's single. Him and me are the only ones who know about this (only he doesn't know that I know he cheated) if that makes sense?
2007-02-19 19:37:30 · update #1
I just don't want him to get away with this (he tried to get away with it the first time, but he didn't, I caught him and he said he didn't think I would find out). But if he gets away with it, I don't think that that is fair to me or his GF.
2007-02-19 19:40:22 · update #2
I would just stay away from this guy.... What happens if you get pregnant? Then you will have a permanent tie to this chronic cheater.
2007-02-19 19:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by bm8211520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him to get away with it, then stop letting him use you.
Don't kid yourself into thinking this is harmless because with guys like him there is always another girl, and another and another. You need to stop being part of his game and remove yourself from the situation. As for his g/f. Just wait. He'll cheat again and when he gets caught you can bet that she'll take enough skin off him for both of you.
2007-02-19 19:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want that KIND of a person to attach yourself to? He's a dog and now that you have seen it, had it, and learned from it. Do away with it. Even if It is really good sex. Its not worth the bad TASTE it'l leave you with. besides, what comes around goes around. Let him get what hes got comming back around.
2007-02-19 20:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we will not say with uncertainty that the two one in each of them are drowsing jointly or no longer, yet what they are doing jointly is undesirable adequate!! i'd say that it's time to RUN from this occasion, till you're into what they are into. that's unlucky that your female can not stay her existence on existence's words. that's obvious that a very undesirable hurricane is on the way and till you like being in touch with unlawful events- you greater valuable circulate alongside. Or act like Ludacris and Head Out!!
2016-11-24 19:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him he is an idiot, get on with your life and find someone better, dont bother telling his gf as she will eventually realiise, its not your place to say. Even if he wanted you to be his gf, he would only cheat on you the way he has cheated on her. Stop letting him use you and walk away.
2007-02-19 20:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a female thing...i understood what you said. i would leave the lying cheating player alone. tell the g/f he is still doing it. if u were to hook up and get serious...he will do it to you too...is that what u really want/need? u deserve better. stay awat from him...u dont want 'homewrecker' attached to u. it aint no fun!
2007-02-19 19:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just push her in a deep hole and take her *****? (b/f) to the gate? then reap what you have sewn? You'l get No appollogies or dee seat ful advise from me. YOU are messed up! Is this how you learned to LIVE love and enjoy life? from your parents ,teachers? or ?????? Miss guide it and Mr **** it got ahold of U
2 bad
2007-02-23 18:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by chickyD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The g/f deserves to know what her so-called b/f is really up to. Do her and yourself a favor and expose his nasty ***. Then you can let live and let go. Wouldnt you want to know if you were waisting your time on such a selfserving indulgent liar? obviously he doesnt care much about either one of you.
2007-02-20 16:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by IceScreamin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting your fair share of the pie so enjoy your piece whether or not he is attached its his business, you two are associates so enjoys the fruits. Dont contact his girl coz she will jus think you want to hurt her and that you the one after her man
2007-02-20 00:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO to the creep
If he cheats with you he will cheat ON you eventually
Don't let him use you this way. YOu deserve your own wonderful man
2007-02-19 19:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋