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for valentines day.....i gave this girl a nice hand made card....and i was hoping for her to say something like "thnx for the card that was nice of u"...but what do i get.....NOTHING! anyways...ive realised she begins to look at me in class....but maybe she was just glancing around.....why doesnt she even say anything..i see her in class like everyday...what the hell..is she like REALLY fricken shy or something? or just not interested or playing hard to get....

...oh yeah i dont know her very well too....in case that helps

2007-02-19 19:16:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

I understand that you feel rejected after handmaking the card and not getting enough credit. But answer me this - did you put spangles on the card? Ribbons? Silvery paper with love hearts cut out? Ok I'll stop the sarcasm. For the love of God man! You don't just give some broad a card and expect she's going to marry you. Maybe back it up with some talking instead of trying to communicate using Jedi mind tricks.

2007-02-19 19:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You've probably taken her by surprise with the card and now she's probably a bit curious and shy as well. Have you done anything to follow up after the card? Saying hi to her when you see her, smiling and making eye contact with her? She's probably not the type to jump in head first so she probably doesn't know how she's supposed to react to the card, give her a nudge in the right direction by approaching her and being friendly. Not interested, friendly. If you seem to eager to take it further you could scare her off so just try and become friends with her first. Being friends will be a good way to decide wether you want to take things further. You might find she's about as interesting as a doormat once you've known her for a while.

Good luck.

2007-02-20 03:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0 1

she could A. not give a ****, B. be ****** clueless C. play hard to get but if she was interested maybe she wouldn't showed some emothion towards the card. maybe she ahs a man. how does she interact with other guys? maybe shes a dyke or just a *****.

2007-02-20 03:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by laura 1 · 0 0

She sounds very uninterested.

However I commend you on making the hand made card.
By making the effort, you will never look back and regret not trying.

Just remember though, you will not get every girl you try for.
Some will just blow you off mercilessly.
But you still try.

Keep hope alive!

2007-02-20 03:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0 0

Maybe she's trying to figure out WHY you gave her the card, since you say you don't know her very well.

2007-02-20 03:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe she’s shy or she’s thinking that you’re having fun with her (coz you said that you really don’t know her yet). You must ask her first if she likes the card...After that you will know if she does.

2007-02-20 03:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by RJ 2 · 0 0

To be honest. I don't think she is shy. She seems uninterested to me, and I think the card has made her feel uncomfortable towards you, that she rather ignores it. However, I could be wrong.

2007-02-20 03:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Marlieke89 3 · 0 0

she's really shy. She likes you but doesn't know how to express that she likes you too so she ended up quiet. Be more initiative. Romance her more and she'll open up.

2007-02-20 03:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0 0

well does she seem shy? think about how she acts in class.
maybe she was too shy to say thanks. seems silly though..
what was her reaction? maybe she just doesn't like you and was too confused to comment. i dont know. i think you know. go with what you feel.. but don't be mad at her.

2007-02-20 03:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♫ 3 · 0 0

you are right.......she is probably shy and doesn't want to let you know or yea..........i can't believe she didn't say anything..........you probably heard this but you should probably get to know her better so you can find out......like just talk to her and find out more about her and things like that...........

2007-02-20 03:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by 1Hottie 2 · 0 0

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