on average...how many times a week or month do u have sex with ur significant other? my fiance wants more than the average and i'm not sure i can give it to him. his sex drive is so high that now that we're not having sex as often, he feels desperate to have sex more. like...he feels insecure about himself and if i'm still attracted to him. on average...about how many is too much ot too little for a week?
2007-02-19 19:07:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For every couple it varies as far as how much sex is too much or too little. If it is a problem now it could become an even bigger problem in marriage. The majority of men have a huge sex drive. However, a good number of men don't achieve the amount of sex needed to satisfy their sex drive. A major part of this is not meeting his significant others needs. A woman typically needs affection in non-sexual ways to be stimulated to give their mate what they are looking for. Both of these go hand in hand usually. There is an extremely good book I recommend on this subject it is called, "His Needs Her Needs". It teaches Men and women about how to meet the needs their mate needs. It is designed to be read as a couple and could help to even this out. Also to understand a man's fight with sexual temptation I would recommend "Every Man's Battle: Sexual Immorality"
2007-02-20 05:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by David J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only right answer to this question is as often as you feel comfortable with. Do you think there might be a medical reason your sex drive is low? Or maybe your boyfriend just needs to learn how to properly put you in the mood. I'm not going to suggest you give it up whenever he wants it, but for the sake of your relationship, you should at least try to rule out the possibility of some health related issue. At the same time, if you feel his sex drive is unnaturally high, you might ask him to see a doctor about it.
I will say that with my ex wife the "average" changed all the time. We would go through periods where she wanted it all the time - like almost daily. And then there were periods where I would be lucky to get it once a week. If the cause was hormones, it was something different than her regular cycle because the cycles were usually much longer than that and didn't really follow any remotely predictable pattern.
2007-02-20 03:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Justin H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If his sex drive is so high why aren't u doing it more often?Why does he feel so insecure about himself and r u attracted to him?
On average...how many times a week or month do u have sex with ur significant other as it varies from couple to couple. Only u can answer these questions by talking to him. Believe me there is no other way. I don't think that any one here can.
2007-02-20 03:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my fiance is the same way he never feels it's enough but he works a lot (he's a firefighter) so he's gone a full 48 hours every shift and then he always picks up more so when we see each other we have sex this week I saw him 1 day and we hooked up 3 times. and I think 3 times a week is about our average I wouldn't go less then that unless I had to.
2007-02-20 03:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by MelC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think this is the best place to find the accurate "average" frequency of sex across a specific group of people. First decide who you want to hear from--what age group, and whether you only want engaged/married couples or not. Then, look it up online. Hope this helps!
2007-02-20 03:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by dancer87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be cuz he/she is not getting off good enough the first time (i know cuz thats how i am) so make sure you blow their mind the first time and maybe they'll tone down...or tell them NO. Anyhow If I had it my way I'd have sex probably fifteen to twenty-five days out of the month...but b/c of work, and schedules and not living together its more like twelve to fifteen.
2007-02-20 03:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by BrOwNsUgA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For most couples it's 2-3 times a week, but different people have different needs - that's waht makes realtionships so hard sometimes...
2007-02-20 03:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by The Owl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He finds you physically attractive, be happy with that. Nobody said you have to enjoy it each and every time, but you might not enjoy it as much as him, is he not doing it now you like it.
Sex is great and is meant to be a competion on how often but the more you like and enjoy it the more you want it.
2007-02-20 03:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends. i want it every day at least once.
if you're not in the mood you could help him out other ways.. head or a handjob. i don't see why that wouldn't be fine for him. you need to have a talk with him if he's feeling insecure..
2007-02-20 03:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what? weeks or months? several times a day EVERY DAY is average for me. i say at least once a day every day. but it is kinda too little. or maybe if i had it like 5 times in one day/night i maybe wouldn't want it the next day. i don't know. but now i am having it every day once a day and it is not enough
2007-02-20 03:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋