Hello people , I had a large depression and thanks to that it affected me In my Love Life.....
Right now I am ok , it took like 3 years to recuperate and get on my feet, there is somewhat depression but doesn't matter right now because I am starting to meet people , and more women ....and i feel good, just starting ask them out but.......
Feeling nervous that I will not function very well in having sex......
Any help will do thanks
2007-02-19 18:55:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Just try to be yourself and don't even think about failure. Fear of failure means a lot of anxiety before sex, and this can only result in premature ejaculation or lack of erection. Try to keep cool.
A very important part has also the woman you're with. She can give you more confidence in yourself or she can ram you down.
2007-02-19 19:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad to hear that you're feeling better. After 3 years of feeling this way, I understand why you may be nervous. I think the best thing to do is be honest. If you meet someone you care about, I would tell them that you haven't done this in awhile and that you're feeling nervous. If the person cares about you, they should understand. I think this will help alleviate some of the insecurities you may be feeling. Don't let these feelings keep you from doing it. Once you do, you will probably realize that you had nothing to worry about. Good luck.
2007-02-20 03:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u meet the right partner who responds to u, sex just happens naturally, because u both want to please the other. Just take it slow at first until u feel comfortable with one another. There is no need to hop in bed on the first date, stay cool and build up to the next steps gradually until u r ready. If she acts encouraging that may speed things up, go for it. Don`t forget to communicate with ur partner as to her likes and dislikes and hopefully she will do the same for you. Good luck, have fun.
2007-02-20 03:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres not exactly any help i can do for you because sex is sumthin that comes naturally you dont have to be nervous to have sex just be yourself and do what u want to dont over think this situation
2007-02-20 03:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by aZn TeAsE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deep love towards the partner makes sex thrilling. You have to love a lot.
2007-02-20 03:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wonderful sexual experience is more in the mind than the body. Let yourself go and don't worry on the what ifs. Use your imagination, relax and enjoy!
2007-02-20 03:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by starrynight1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a very good partner, and study the subject.
2007-02-20 03:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get a very good sex in life we have to do the sex or see the sexy sites like www.sex.com ; www.pinkworld.com ; etc.
2007-02-20 03:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by ABBAS DON 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋