Ladies i need a answer with this 1!!!! Can help me out.... fight the female (best friend) or fight the male (boyfriend)
2007-02-19 18:55:23 · 27 answers · asked by jus_askin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not a lady but ill tell you
GET RID OF BOTH OF THEM!
2007-02-19 18:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by I LOVE YANKS & DESPISE REDNECKS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say fight the female best friend. Not all men are cheaters. However, If something like this happens, I think it is expected more from your boyfriend/girlfriend rather than your best friend. It is wrong either way, & everyone should know better, but c'mon! Your best friend, really! That just isn't right. Those are grounds for some serious *** kicking. I say "She's cut!"
2007-02-19 19:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by DarkStar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop with all the drama. Dating is just a way to figure out what qualities you are looking for in a lifetime partner. Ok, so he cheated, you weren't married, you were just dating. All is fair as long as there's no ring on your finger. That doesn't mean you shouldn't be mad. I have been cheated on, and I'm afraid that I have also cheated on boyfriends, but let's face it...he's just a boyfriend. As for your girlfriend, she obviously does not know the meaning of friendship. She's got to go too...Find yourself a new girlfriend to hang out with, and keep your eyes open for another guy that peaks your interest! Don't waste your time on all the drama, get angry at them, let them know how they've hurt you and move on...Good luck!
2007-02-19 19:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight either. What they did was a rotten, disgusting and low act. Fighting them will only give them justification for what they did. Cut them both out of your life and move on. Find a man who is going to love you and only you and find a best friend who is actually your friend, not some dirty cheap slutski who doesn't deserve the time of day.
2007-02-19 19:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no female but I can tell you this;
Dump Both of their sorry keisters! First of all, your friend should have given you more respect than she did. If she had, she would be considered more as a best friend. But she decided to play back stabber / hanky panky player behind your back with your boy. Wrong by any standards.
Plus, your boyfriend isn't worthy enough to be with you. Since he decided to do the vertical mambo with your friend (ahem) than seriously speaking, he deserves as equally as your friend to be the brunt of your scorn.
Plus, the sweetest and best revenge you can do to a cheating partner is to let the other keep him.You don't need them
Make new friends who are worthy of you.
cheers
2007-02-19 19:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by H Vice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you with your best friend than its time to go. Love is something earned and not taken for likely. Your best friend and your boyfriend don't really understand what they have done to you. If they understood the hurt they have caused, it would have never have happened. Cut your loss now, if you don't then you might get hurt by them again. Just move on to someone you can trust and love. To many people are out there cheating and causing pain. Love yourself and just move on..
2007-02-19 19:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight them both. If she was your bestfriend then she knew that you were with the guy, and the guy must be a jerk if he cheated, especially if it was with your best friend. Kick both their asses then kick them to the curb because you can do bad all by yourself.
2007-02-19 19:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by gotstobe06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, kick your boyfriend's *** literally! second, shave your bestfriend's hair while she is sleeping. then find a cuter guy and dump your old boyfriend. he does not deserve your love. you can never trust a guy who cheats especially with your bestfriend. and get rid of your bestfriend. a true friend can never do such horrible things like that if she really values your friendship.
2007-02-19 19:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a female, but fight the bestfriend. Whoop her butt really good, then dump the guy in the garbage bin and empty the bin over a Cliff.
2007-02-19 18:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by PC VS Mac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just remember boys come and go but, friends are supposed to last forever. If this is your best friend demand an apology. And get rid of the boy toy. He is nothing. If he can tell you he loves you sleeps with you best friend how can you trust him. Your friend is hoe. nothing you can do about it. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-19 19:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might confront my boyfriend staggering away and then if he would not appologize or would not seem to confirm on you back then sell off him. If he ever tries to communicate to you back basically blow him off. circulate on and discover yet another guy which will comprehend your emotions extra. As on your 'maximum suitable buddy' i might additionally confront her approximately it. opportunities are high that she would be in a position to appologize just to maintain you as a pal yet whilst she says sorry to you do no longer settle for it! She is obviously no longer sorry if she might even think of of doing that to you in the 1st place. She might say she is incredibly sorry and that she did no longer think of it would harm you lots yet have not got self belief it. She isn't sorry. Then basically stroll far off from her and if she tries calling you draw % up, if she texts you do no longer answer, if she im's you sign off, etc....ultimately she would be in a position to get the photograph which you arn't going to settle for this crap. do no longer supply in! in case you start to be pals together with her back she would be in a position to think of she will do those products to you every time she needs simply by fact she knows that she is going to get you back as a pal the two way. wish this helped and that each and every thing worked out for you.
2016-10-02 10:40:32 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋