There's this guy I have recently met and we both obviously share an interest in eachother because everytime we see eachother we hold hands, cuddle, and kiss, but the day after I hang out with him or a couple days after he doesn't call! or text or anything. He's not my boyfriend so I don't expect him to call me all the time, but why doesn't he even talk to me a little bit? Is he trying to take it slow cause we mmet recently and doesn't want to freak me out or something? I don't get it.
2007-02-19 18:54:32 · 9 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly its because men feel the need to connect physically ( holding hands, kissing, etc.) women tend to feel the need to connect emotionally ( talking, talking, and still more talking). If he already connects with you his way, then he is fulflilled. Take that away and he'll be calling in no time.
2007-02-19 19:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Vivid C 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well he could be trying to take it slow. He might be worried that if he does he might upset you or scare you off because of something he said that you didn't like or take the way he ment it. That happens sometimes. Or he might think that you don't want to talk to him while you aren't around him.
Just ask him about it & see & listen to what he has to say. The best thing that you can do for a relationship is comunicate, comunicate, comunicate.
I don't think that I could stress that enough. Lots of relationships in this country go down the tubes because they don't comunicate or work as a team on the things that they should.
Hope this helps. :)
2007-02-19 19:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you know where you stand. Maybe he calls you when he feels like holding hands, cuddling and kissing.
2007-02-19 19:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a lot of things, could have used you to boost his ego, he might have another girl on the side, he might be confused about the feelings that he has for you right now, he may just need time to think about deep of a relationship he wants with you, the possiblities are many.
2007-02-19 19:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Goten S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God if we had the the answer to this life would be easy. Maybe he's just not ready for a commitment. try and switch it up on him a bit. dont hang out, dont kiss........freak him out.
2007-02-19 19:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by laura 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
guys just find phone conversations awkward. girls can go on for hours, guys say what is necessary and hang up. If ur slightly shy like me it doesnt help either. Maybe hes just shy
2007-02-19 19:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We like our space.
2007-02-19 18:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by takeiteasybrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have other things to think about.
2007-02-19 19:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by cookie monster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST go on like he dont exist. THEn he may call. HE may not call.
2007-02-19 19:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋