If a guy gets mad at you bc u want him to use a condom and he doesnt answer when u call?

Question

i met a guy long distance in oklahoma and at first i said no condoms but i dont want to get pregant i do but not now i cant afford a baby i told him i change my mind and i want a condom he told me to hang on but he cell died i tried calling him back it went straight to voicemail. he always says good night b4 we go to bed. Is he mad that i changed my mind or what i need help hayley

Answer 1

his phone died if it died it will go to voice mail look the guys not going to quit on you because of a condom he will just talk you out of it in person later ...his phone died,,,,,,

Answer 2

Sounds like to me that after you both had sex things went wrong. He sounds very insecure. He needs his friend to hold his hand, can't stand up for himself. Also drinking and popping pills. Like his friend said he is m.e.s.s.e.d up. Sounds like you like him very much, and I am sure he would not have gone through same amount of trouble to see you if he did not like you. Think it may have been wiser for you both to have gotten to know each other better first before getting so emeoyionally involved, or rather sexually involved and your bond might have been made stronger. But if he is as you say back with his girlfriend, then really it should be up to him, to contact you. Saying that if you are invited over and you still like him, which you do, you could go see him. Understandably, you certainly do not seem to like his friend. But obviously his friend is a big influence in his life. Still it is up to he, the person you like to answer your question, and maybe wiser to only keep it between the both of you. If posible. Third parties have often been the ruine of many a good relationship. But even if you do get back so to speak with the person you like, it may continue to cause you some stress. Because he seems to be afraid of being totally honest with you. One moment he sounds confident, the next more or less a complete wreck. Try finding a new interest. I do not mean go out with someone else. Unless of course you find someone who makes you happier. I mean something like a new hobby, to give your mind and emotions a break for a while. On my Yahoo 360 page are some things you might find of interest. Easy reading whatever. Wishing you peace, and happy Christmas and a happy new year!

Answer 3

If you don't want a condom= then no condom. If he doesn't respect that then he's not worth sleeping with. If he is getting mad about that then he may only be using you for one thing. Stick to your guns and don't give in, if he gets mad then go fing somebody else.

Answer 4

well if a guy is going to get mad at you for not wanting to use a condom then he is not worth your time it doesn't matter how nice the guy seems. and also maybe is phone just died and he could get to a charger but I wait for him to call me back and see what he says! good luck!

Answer 5

please don't have sex with someone you met long distance. i think his phone just died but this isn't a good situation for you. any guy that doesn't want to use a condom means he has had sex without a condom many times. forget about pregnancy; do you really want to get an incurable STD??!!

Answer 6

If a guy haws a problem with using a condom, then he has problems, and is probably not a good guy to be with. God knows how many diseases he has. It's for your own safety. I don't think you want aids.

Answer 7

He is ignoring you in hope that your attitude will change. When a girl wants a guy to do something that he doesn't want to then mostly a guy wants the problem to go away on its own.

Answer 8

condom was the best decision you ever made.

Answer 9

**** him, forget him **** him, he's a stupid person who'll get you caught up, you flock with him and your a bird of the same feather, don't be stupid.

Answer 10

TELL HIM no condom no sex.