Is it wrong?

Question

Is it wrong to go behind your fiance/boyfriend's back and go trough all the details on his mobile phone? Like his messages etc.

Answer 1

it is wrong.. but if you are suspisous of something than yes... but you should just trust him though if you are not.. you wouldn't want him going through your stuff

Answer 2

I don't think the question is: Is it wrong? Because, by you asking you know that it is violating his privacy. I think the question is why did you feel the need to go behind his back? Before you get married, maybe you should ask yourself two questions: Did I want to find something, and why? And: Do I have doubts about his faithfulness or am I just being insecure?. Unfortunately, we live in a world where sex rules, the TV, the Internet, society. I think it's hard to live in that kind of world and stay focused on a monogamous relationship and feel secure for a lot of guys AND girls. I can tell you from experience not to go against your gut instinct, if something feels out of sync, it probably is. But, this doesn't mean there is no hope. I looked and looked and eventually I found. Think about your motive: insecurity? lack of trust? bad feeling?

Answer 3

I dont think its wrong. He shouldnt have anything to hide from you right.
But then again, the fact that you feel like going through his messages signifies that there's a lack of trust between the both of you. Maybe you should ask this question to urself, does he in someway make you feel insecure?
But if it was the other way round, would you be ok if he were to go through ur messages? Just a thought to ponder.
Hope u work things out.

Answer 4

To a certain extent yes, it's wrong. You're invading his privacy without telling him and it shows that you don't trust him. I bet you wouldn't like it if you found out he was doing it to you.
I do it too but i go through my boyfriends phone in front of him so if there's something in there he doesn't want me to see he reacts and we can talk about it.

Answer 5

This will shock you that if you are trying to find out some stuff on contacts outa HIS cell phone, Why you have selected that guy on whom you don't trust! ? your selection is lacking. and if u have selected that guy you should make a trust worthy relationship!
if he caught u exploring his cell phone. will make u ashame and make him to think that
YOU DO NOT TRUST HIM
so you know what the answer is
:)

Answer 6

Yes because you should trust eachother and there sholud not be anything to hide but i suppose if you suspect there is something weird or wrong then i think you should...you might feel stupid if there is nothing he is hiding but if there is, you will then seer him for who he really is!!

Answer 7

Nothing, He would probably do the same thing to you.
Heck guys look in our underwear drawer, Whats looking through is phone going to hurt.......good luck

Answer 8

it is wrong, however, if you feel there is a reason that you can't trust him and that is why you are going through his stuff, maybe you need to step back and take a look at your relationship.

Answer 9

well yes but I do it! i mean I'm sure he would if he had the chance without you know just don't confront him on something unless you really feel strongly about it I've done that and it's not a pretty picture.

Answer 10

It's completely wrong, but if you're going to do it, make sure you don't get caught and act like you didn't do anything and know nothing.

Really crappy advice...haha.