can be a friend be a lover?
2007-02-19 18:39:36 · 5 answers · asked by johnwayne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My best friend is a guy and i would do anything to know that he loved me as more than a friend. If she is truely your best friend i am sure the thought has entered her mind once or twice but perhaps she is scared to admit to herself that she loves you too...She is scared that you might not feel the same and you might reject the idea of something more...I can't really speak for her but this is what i am afraid of.
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The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.-unknown
He doesn’t know it but she’s scared
who knows
he could be scared to . . .-unknown
There’s a little truth behind every just kidding-unknown
Before I met you, I never knew what it was like to look at someone and smile for no reason.-unknown
Once in a while a girl gets lucky.
She’ll have a boyfriend and a best friend...but if she’s really lucky she'll find both in one person.-unknown
It kills me inside.
Not knowing what you are thinking.
When you’re all I’m thinking of.-unknown---Maybe this is how she feels i know this is how i feel about my best friend.
All i can really say is GO FOR IT!!!!!!!
you have nothing to lose and everything to gain...even if things don't turn out the way you want at least you will know, you will always have your friendship but the possibility of something more lies in the hands of you or her, and who knows she could be scared...The saddest words of tounge and pen are these..."it might have been."
2007-02-19 19:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by 1.2..3...Boo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you can be in love with your best friend, remember your lover should be a friend to you as well. Tell her your in love with her but that you just can't see you in a relationship right now and then just give it some time.
2007-02-20 02:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends its tricky. first of all you have to know that she likes you. If she like you just as a friend then you have your work cut out for you. But if she thinks you kinda hot, may be good looking to her that you have a chance right of the bat. Tell her how you feel, but be ready for anything, even getting hurt. Sometimes after a girl gets older she may realize her good best friend is who she needs to be with. Always treat her with respect and be there for her as much as you can. Who knows may be one day youll be walking donw thw isle. I hope this helps.
2007-02-20 02:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell her, but you'd be wasting your time. She probably already knows.
You're in the Friend Zone, from which escape is unlikely.
Say Goodbye, forget her and move on.
2007-02-20 02:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u say "i'm in love with my best friend" to her.
2007-02-20 02:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by hgary06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋