and 3 of my other friends like her too one is her ex. she always smiles at me she always likes talking to me, but i cant help the feeling she only wants the be friends. Should i ask her out even if 3 other of my friends like her and it might ruin my friendship with her?
2007-02-19 18:37:29 · 9 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she told me once she likes talking to me more then the other two thats not her ex. but her ex which is like my best friend likes her a lot and tells me all the time that "he loves her" (Even if he cheated on her) Also she likes him too i think i cant tell.
2007-02-19 18:51:43 · update #1
ask her out in the presence of the other three and see how she will react, Sometimes other friends may not be liking her (with exception of her ex) Friends are always competing and they end up competing over one lady, The other one will want to go out with her because she likes him, The other one may like her but not sure if she will go out with him because he is aware that she likes the other guy and you will end-up with a long chain of speculations as if you are at stock exchange. Ask her out publicly and openly and if she accept fine but even if she declines you will have made her aware that you are the one who loves her and you do not hide it. she will be proud of you. Reason? SHE IS AWARE THAT YOU ALL LOVE HER AND UNLESS ONE OF YOU TAKE BOLD STEP WHE WILL DUMP YOU ALL. And one useless guy from around the corner will go out with her while you all watch.
2007-02-19 18:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking her out, like to be your girlfriend, why don't you just ask her if she wants to hang out with you. Take her go karting or something fun and see what happens. If she likes talking to you then you're already halfway there. Just keep it casual and see how things go. If she liked one of your friends, she'd be smiling and talking to them more than you.
If she doesn't like you, you need to decide wether you can accept that and just enjoy having her as a friend. The only thing that will ruin your friendship either way will be how you handle things.
2007-02-20 02:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if it's what you want then go for it, avoid that friend zone like its a nest of fireants, why win with bronze when you have a chance to go for that gold. But really how good of a friend do you think she would be? After a while she will find a man willing to make the effort into being with her and she will be spending all her time with him anyways and not have time for the male friends that her new boyfriend doesnt want her around anyways.
2007-02-20 02:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by kloops1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As her out and tell that you value her friendship. And also find out whether she is interested to go any further. Tell her that either yes or no does not affect your friendship. Be fair. Prepare for the worst but expect the best. Be a Man.
2007-02-20 02:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, go for it. Don't live in regret .. if u leave it, u will never know if she ever liked u back. And if you dont ask her, she might think u never cared. well, even if ur 3 other friends like her, you should take a risk. lifes too short
2007-02-20 02:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by rainbowstylin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont ask her out unless you know fur sure she likes you cuz u'll feel stupid and she'll tell all her freinds and u'll feel even more stupid...but i dunno ask ur friends if they would get mad if you went out with her...they shouldnt get mad at you...maybe jealous but not mad thats stupid...well talk to one of her friends that ur close to and have that girl find out if she likes you...then i guess ask you out...but im telling you some ones gunna get hurt and its most likely gunna be you...relationships are a waste of time when ur young...you should have fun for now...then when ur mentally ready go for it...well good luck with this girl..
2007-02-20 02:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Alisonnnnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta talk to ur friends first see if its okay.. n if they really care about you.. they wouldnt mind if u ask her out.. but b4 u ask her out ask her how she feels about you b4 u go do somethin then get rejected..
2007-02-20 02:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by BLAH =\ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be confident of yrself, try yr luck, ask her out.
2007-02-20 02:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its wrong
2007-02-20 02:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by suresh b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋