i guess you have obviously guessed that i'm young from the question. you are correct.I'm 15-16yrs. well the thing is I met this guy on the net and we started talking.And if you're wondering then yes he is who he says he is about 16 and in liverpool. I on the other hand am in bham and we have been talking for the last 3mths. now he told me that he loved me and also some of his cousins and mates know about me.I feel for him too and he really does make me happy and he seems to know almost the right thing to say to make me happy even if its his fault im sad.i want to know what you people think about our relationship and it woulld be nice if you could be honest and not think of yourself when answering this. should i continue talking to him? i cant meet him in person until august and he says he doesn't mind even if its 6mths away.
2007-02-19 18:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see nothing wrong with talking on the net. I do see something wrong if he starts to call collect, or asks for money. But if none of this is happening-enjoy!
2007-02-19 18:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think that it is great that you have this opportunity to speak to somebody who makes you happy. The fact that he feels the same way makes it even greater. But as my grandmother used to say , you will never know someone fully. Why am I saying this, well I think that you will make your mind up about this guy when you meet up in August, personally I would go with some friends just to make sure. There are some very deceptive people out there.
I wish you luck and hope when you meet him everything gels together.
:D
2007-02-19 18:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
internet relationships are highly increasing yet there is this taboo about them...personally i dont find them any different to going to somewhere new and meeting a random person...the only difference is that you don't chat face to face to the person. I made alot of friends over the internet...some of whom are my very close friends now who i have met in person. The reason such a negative view is given about these kinda relationships is bcos you have to be careful that the person is genuine so it is a high risk. But if you do like this person continue to talk to him and when you go to meet him or he comes to see you, make sure u arent alone and you take someone you trust and you meet in a public place that way you know hes genuine.
2007-02-26 09:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by laydeeheartless 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's ok to talk to people online and have friendships this way, but you're only 16 once! You'll never have the opportunity to have a high school sweetheart again- I think you should put your efforts towards other friendships and relationships. Otherwise you'll be 25 and wondering why you wasted your high school years chatting with some dude you've never met who is thousands of miles away.
2007-02-19 18:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by megs1bq 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be careful, talking is fine but you have to remember alot of people have an internet persona that isn't really them in real life. You can be whatever you want to be its like a fantasy world.
I wouldn't take it to seriously at this stage and I wouldn't rush to meet either.
2007-02-27 00:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say it seems innocent but be very very careful!!
If you go to meet anyone always tell somebody!!
Have a look at these websites to get some advice but I do think as long as your safe there is no reason why you cant keep speaking to him!
Just remember all guys will tell you they LOVE you and im afraid some of them will only want one thing!!
http://www.ou.edu/oupd/kidsafe/inet.htm
2007-02-24 05:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by kirsty m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not meet him..its not safe..find a boy that lives near you and not on the internet..there must be lots of boys at your school.
2007-02-26 22:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice to you would just be enjoy and be really careful. As long as he treats you ok and hes not asked for any money then you are doing just fine! Meet him on your own turf and play it safe.
2007-02-19 18:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by madmoo0 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i just really hope that he is who he says he is. coz, we never know if he is telling the truth or not. i've been there. hopefully, what you feel is right and i will be more than happy for you. just you take care, okay......
2007-02-24 08:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by President Of D' Clan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be VERY carefull!!
2007-02-19 18:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋