I have ex’s and they always appears to be spiteful… they are mean to you, give you an attitude, appear not to care about you, want to get you into trouble, and send people after you.
2007-02-19 18:31:34 · 12 answers · asked by Adam Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cuz when you break up with some one they feel mad and embarresed cuz they got dumped...anndd they're pathetic and think being spiteful and sending people after will bring you down but if you completely ignore them and show them they're not getting to you then you'll be fine...unless you still like the guy or girl..then i guess you got problemss
2007-02-19 18:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Alisonnnnn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately hurt people, hurt people. Sometimes they can be spiteful because you hurt them, broke their hearts or more likely their trust. Sometimes, they have been hurt in the past. You can usually see this when your dating them however. Pain is the inner most cause for this type of behavior, although other underlying reasons can also be present. Sometimes they want you back. They do not know how to communicate the painful feelings or the loving emotion that they want to show you. They might not even know what they are feeling. People have forgotten how to love. Not the I love you because we're together or you love me too. But, the love that doesn't depend on a returning emotion. However, this does not by any means excuse their behavior! If they are going to far-REPORT THEM! I have had tires slashed, stalking ex boyfriends hiding in my closet, and it can get extreme. Prank phone calls and cold attitudes are one thing, but do be careful. Blessings!
2007-02-19 18:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by molly hadley 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Adamy Y; Sadly, I simply have to agree that 'They CERTAINLY are'!
I once married a Cavitania. I was 35 years; she 25 years.
All went blissfully for, at least, as far as this Aussie-man could tell..
But, women ALWAYS know, just [where they wiill] head;
should the marriage strike a rocky-patch -along Life's 'road'.
A year after our 3-year-old daughter's birthday the "heart-of-Gold'
Cavitania, walked away with 50% of my wealth -using Chinese Lawyers' here.
I was to never see my daughter again.. -so I went up to Mindanao and was
soon married to a (more suitable, [educated] school-teacher.
But, your observations are SO correct, Adam.. Whenever my daughter
wrote me a Christmas letter, and a nice card.. and entrusted the
posting of it with her mother of about 34 years
the letter WAS NOT EVER POSTED -untill, the following Easter!
Now, in Australia we HAVE a 'totally reliable' Postal-System..
(one quite unlike the theiving Pinoy Postal Officials: a system
SO corrupt, very few "fat" letters [can reach] say, Bukidnon!
Hopeless! (So, do not think that -in any way- the Aussie mail-system gave me years-of-grief):
It was the vindictive Cavitanian, "ex" -one who had ONCE
held a 'position-of-Trust' -in 'Accounts', -in the Hyatt Hotel, in the early '80's:
my vindictive "ex".. well, she would "hold" her daughter's Christmas-mail
to ME, (away on the other-side of this huge country) -untill the following April!
Consequently, i never got to know my beautifull mestisa daughter;
(I hear she now attends University -away in Perth; yet I always paid
MY half of her Lady's College fees; but always received "out-of-date"
mail from her -untill the Grand-parents (I also brought out, poisoned her mind -against writing TO a father
married to a lady-from Mindanao; (-not, "Bisayan", either)!
2007-02-19 19:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, dude, you got it bad! She actually has some people after you? Damn, this girl wants your balls on a chain or something. I would hate to be you. Well, the question is what did you do to for her to behave that way? Either a-you messed around with her feelings, or b-she's just going psycho on you. Good Luck!
2007-02-19 18:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you broke their heart and it's all they can do to stop rom crying every time they hear you name or see you. that and maybe give you a taste of the pain they feel. OR want you to think they are SOOOO over it- by being mean to you.
2007-02-19 18:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by michelle342 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looks like some, heck, countless the failings we've had. do no longer forget approximately heavy accountability cord coat hangers to hold up sagging mufflers. clever gal, you're, comprehend "no longer something." i like it, & specific he did. Chewing gum, neat.
2016-09-29 08:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they feel betrayed sometimes, hurt, embarassed, etc., etc. They want you to feel the same pain or just any kind of pain really; mental or physical because it gives them satisfaction. Women are #%$@! psycho, remember that.
2007-02-19 18:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Pontius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because there is a fine line before love and hate. in order to hate strongly you have to of loved powerfully
2007-02-19 18:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that`s why u`ve broken up and he became ur EX.
u don`t fit to each other
if they act like that,do the same thing to them,it`s quite interesting too.u can make it ur past time:P
2007-02-19 18:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by lara 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's a thin line between love and hate
2007-02-19 18:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋