ok so heres the deal, my gf gets rides from this guy that likes her and that wants to have sex with her, and he tells her this and she said that she wasnt going to tell me. what should i do?
2007-02-19 18:29:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her to stop seeing him..she wouldnt like it if there was a girl chasing you and trying to jump on your bones..tell the guy to stay away from your girl.
2007-02-26 22:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's serious. But it could also not be.
Let's break this down. One of two things could be happening here:
1. She could just be embarassed by this and not want to talk about it. A lot of people just prefer to ignore the way others feel about them when it comes to this. It's awkward especially with a boyfriend. Fear of them overreacting could always be an issue.
2. The other thing it could be, is that she IS having sex with him or wants to. At which point the best thing to do is to break up.
Now the problem is figuring out which it is. Simple solution. Ask her. Encourage her to be frank by saying something like "I just need to know. It's killing me not knowing where we stand. Once I know, I can move on but for right now, I can't," It may sound cheesy, but it'll get her to tell you the truth which can help you make the right decision.
I really hope this helps you.
2007-02-20 02:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by sexi ladi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she says she wasn't going to tell you, then that could mean she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or cause you to get upset. It doesn't have to mean she wants to have sex with him secretively. Just be calm and continue to be there for her. By the way, how did you know about this?
2007-02-20 02:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by PC VS Mac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She need not tell u but she should not accept rides from him. Looks like she is either trying her best not to hurt either of you, or she is trying to lead both of you on. I suggest you have a frank talk, tell her to stop accepting rides from him. If she does not, you have to stop your relationship with her.
2007-02-20 02:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by shgo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to stop getting rides from him.
2007-02-28 01:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to allow herself to be on those situations, you have to ask yourself if that is ok with you. If not, you have to remove yourself from this situation. If she is an integral part of that situation, then she needs to go.
2007-02-28 00:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by 12string 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to stop getting lifts from that guy, and to stay away from him, coz he is not gonna stop untill he get what he wants. My girlfriend is prohibited from getting any lifts from guys she can get from guys she know through me. you should adopt that policy coz as long as yo girl is sexy and beautifull there will always be guys after her so its good to just reduce the number.
2007-02-20 03:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her
2007-02-20 02:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by suresh b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she can fool some...sometimes, not all...all the times , open your eyes , see the real world
2007-02-20 03:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by breeze_over_stormy_ground 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave her now
2007-02-20 02:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by Ahmad E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋