2007-02-19 18:08:48 · 18 answers · asked by aaryan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ultimate destnation- yes. because you can theoretically share everything in marriage- and become so in love that you become like one person. Final destination- no. marriage isnt the climax of life and love- it is just a symbol of it. it's like proving you really do love the person- because you arent just saying words- you are showing everyone publicly that you want to be with only this person for the rest of time. lots of people say they are in love. but marriage is the test to see how true that is.
2007-02-19 18:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by michelle342 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on the person and the couple. It's the ultimate destination of love for me because I wanted to be with someone I can build an incredibley deep bond with. I can't do that if I'm in a relationship with someone that won't last past 2, or 5, or 20 years. I need to know everything about the person, and I want to grow old with her and we learn together througout life.
Some people will say you don't have to get married to do this, but I disagree because, if I'm with someone who doesn't trust the relationship enough to marry, then the relationship isn't real enough to me.
It's not real enough because some people will say, "but what about prenups? You have to protect your belongings". If me and my girl can't trust each other enough to know that even if we divorced we wouldn't hurt each other like that, then clearly the love isn't as strong as I'm looking for.
Some people say, :"but marriage is an institution". One of the definitions of institution is, " A custom, practice, relationship, or behavioral pattern of importance in the life of a community or society:" This means that having a relationship in general is an institution, only without the law in the way, but it's still an institution. And if the love is truly real, the law isn't seen as an obstical, but instead just another tool used to meld you both as one in the governments eyes.
In the end, if you feel you are truly married for real in your own minds together, because you for some reason can't get married legally, as long as you both know you'll alway be together, thats all that matters. But most poeple look at being unmarried as the freedom to leave when ever they wish instead of seeing the person their with as one to be with forever.
To me anything else is just a superficial relationship that I feel is no need to bother with. Sorry for the rant. I'm married by the way.
2007-02-20 02:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not... Marriage is a finalized deal. However, you decide to close the door by marrying the person you love. This means all doors are closed and no one can get in. It is a finalized process. In clear words, marriage is a sealed agreement to spend the rest of your life with THIS person. Now, have fun while your promise last.
2007-02-20 02:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by PC VS Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love the person from the bottom of ur heart
u cant live without that person.and in ur heart u know that watever happens in future.... u will be happy together.... then yes that relationship should be taken towards marriage
2007-02-20 02:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by jill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes its not about the destination, with true love from what I have experienced of it anyway its all about the journey.
-NmD!
2007-02-20 02:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. If you've found the ryt person and the person u will love forever and accept them. marriage does have its ups n downs but love can overcome anything.
2007-02-20 02:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by WHATEVER!!` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is begining of love not destination.
In marriage love should blossom with children and family and society
2007-02-20 02:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by suma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is...you find the perfect person and marry them and then hope to grow old with them. when you marry someone you finally found someone that you love and vice versa and this is the way to show it that you two want to spend your lives together
2007-02-20 02:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No marriage is the final undoing of a good relationship!
2007-02-20 02:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by Seoul Brother 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily. Sometimes marriage is impossible, sometimes not even desirable.
2007-02-20 02:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋