i am 16, i know im young. i havent started dating yet but i know what i want. when i do start what are the odds that i could find a girl who is willing to be in a long term relationship that would involve a wedding ring. all i want is to get married and later on have a couple children. how long should i wait to try and find a girl ready to do that with me?
2007-02-19 17:55:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say wait until your around 26. You may know what you want but over a certain amount of trial and error that may change over time. Sometimes what you want now isn't what you need when the time comes, also the same for what you need isn't always what you may have wanted currently. Give it time, I have shared in your dream much of my life. I have been close to marriage more than once and each would have been a mistake in spite of my thoughts then, because I didn't meet the love of my life until I was 26. She is more than I ever wanted, more than I thought possible, and everything I could ever want or need in the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Take it a day at a time, follow your heart and don't take her for granted if and when she walks into your life.
-NmD!
2007-02-19 18:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, slow down. Even at your age, that scares girls off. At this point in your life many girls are just beginning to be in relationships, especially serious ones. Really, you're very young and have many years to find the one who you want to marry. First you MUST date to find out what type of person you will eventually want to marry. You might think you know right now but you will not fully understand until you have had some dating experiences. So, bottom line, first things first. Date to know what you'll eventually be looking for. Don't look quite yet.
2007-02-19 18:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The recommended age for marriage is 25.... The recommended age for dating is 16... The recommended age to put your head to your lessons is 4... The recommended age to have children is when you already graduate from college. If you are unfortunate to participate in college, start making kids at age 26... If you take what I provided here seriously, you will have less regrets in your life. Have a great day.
2007-02-19 18:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
Thats kind of a long term goal.
At 16, its tough to even get a handel on who you are, what kind of job you want to have, and bills.
Honestly, just go with it, don't fixate on getting married now.
2007-02-19 18:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jon C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the odds are excellent if you dont rush it give it time and the right one will come. I know I had to wait until I was in my 20's but now my life couldn't be better when the right one comes you will know it
2007-02-19 18:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by wombatwaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right then it will present itself however I say if that is what you want then start during your college years...hope this helps
2007-02-19 18:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too early to think on marriage. Have few girls, understand them while enjoying them
2007-02-19 18:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by ramesh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a matter of time.... well it is.... you shouldn't be looking for that when you first start dating, it can cause all sorts of problems....
2007-02-19 17:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by Metallico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋