My heart breaking love story. Advices?

Question

if you want to read my story:

http://www.rhkenji.com/wordpress/?p=65

its pretty long but i want to ask serious answerer this:

should i tell her and risk losing the friendship that we have now..

or

not tell her, and just see her walk away but still be her friend. i

its hard, really really hard.

Answer 1

You know she only wants you as a friend so say nothing..you have to forget her..stop seeing her also..it will be hard but its for the best..we have all loved someone who doesnt love us back and got over them..you will too....find another girl who will love you the way you deserve to be loved..and never compare them to her.

Answer 2

Bad news

Chicks are like banks - they really only want to lend to people that don't need the money

Chicks basically live and die for the big "chimistry" which is their crack cocaine in life - and it matterS little about whether the man cares or actually loves them

WHAT MATTERS IS HOW THEY FEEL TOWARD THE MAN - and that process is all subconcious no matter what they may SAY about wanting to meet "nice guys"

CHICKS get chemistry for men fitting the evolutioary genetic survival norms as follows:

1. controlling behavior by the male
2. deceptive behavior - lies
3. most important - nomonogamy - ie. cheating or the beliet their man wants to or is cheating

Answer 3

I think that a letter needs to be written in which you explain all this...she will then understand that whatever decision she makes will determine what has to happen... so she won't be surprised if you have to distance yourself... because sometimes in order to get over that person you need to be away from them.. and of course it will be hard... you have hectic emotions invested in her, and it will take a while to get over it... but it will happen and you need to sometimes force yourself out of your comfort zone in order to be able to do this... but trust me the pain will go away as you move on with your life... there will be someone else and one day that love will be reciprocated... just open yourself up to all relationships (friendships) and who knows maybe something will come from one of those... I really hope you are able to make this work...but a letter is best coz then she can read it alone, and then decide what she wants to do... and you don't have to be there showing all your emotion while its all explained which can be torture... stay well and hope you will be ok!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

you should send that to her in the form of a letter to let her know how you really feel about her.. without courage you aren't ever gonna have the chance to even know if you can have her...