2007-02-19 17:44:45 · 12 answers · asked by jenny g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what your problem is why do you want attention from guys? What you trying to validate the fact you are fat. Just gain another 100 lbs and you will get all the attention you want and it will all be bad. On the flip side lose all the extra wieght and you still get the wrong kind of attention you want to be seen like a piece of meat. Seems fun to objectified at first then it gets old. Women treat me like a piece of meat and I loved it at first now I am bored and disgusted. You need to work on self validation.
2007-02-19 17:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your happy to know allot of guys in my town love big beautiful woman! In CA there are about 20 men for every women! What kind of attention do you want also? What you need to do is
1. Quit complaing cutie because it doesnt get u attention but only pitty..
2. Go get yourself a complete massage, facial, hair done and just recognize yourself as the queen: )
3. Masturbate because you need to have some form of release..
5. I skipped four cause by the time you do all 1-3 "4" wont even matter cause I know for a fact by that time you've found someone...
so good luck princess..
2007-02-19 18:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all just because your fat doesnt mean you cant get attentin from guys......maybe your looking in the wrong place...you need to work on your self esteem and feel better about yourself...men can sense when us woman have low self esteem or bad images of ourselves....... for every time you say something negative write down 5 positives and start speaking positivly instead of negative....when you speak negativily your writting your own destiny..... STOP...... take a step back...take a few deep breaths and tell yourself your beautiful no matter what your outwardly appreance is.... If your not happy with your weight then do something about it....start to excersise, diet and change your outlook on life....... only YOU have the power to make change something in your life.....once your happy with yourself then the men will notice and trust me you will see the attention you get more....Keep your head up....You make me want to cry because I understand how you feel---- Im overweight too BUT IM DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT...Im dieting and excersing.....Keep a CAN DO attitude---good luck
2007-02-19 18:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by Tbrat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be comfortable with yourself by accepting and loving yourself inside and out. people are less likely to notice your faults if you are confident. more likely to notice them if you are sad alot or not smiling, and happy. some men like big women so it is not your weight...it's your acceptance of your weight, girl be you and be happy to be you...have fun life is too short
2007-02-19 17:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by Divine_10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lose some weight. feel pretty and confident. start to participate in school activities to get to know other guys. be friends with them. flirt with them.
2007-02-19 17:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could stop feeling sorry for your poor pathetic self... you are creating all of your own misery, not anyone else.. try doing something to change things if your not happy.. If your suffering it is because you want to suffer...
2007-02-19 17:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. there are guys out there that like big girl insted of small ones! keep looking and you will find him!
2007-02-19 18:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lose some weight.
2007-02-19 17:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
work out. you will build confidence and men are attracted to confidence
2007-02-19 17:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by mrcarl92807 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, be confident in who you are, make them laugh. lose the weight for you, not them.
2007-02-19 17:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by readytorun67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋