how to exude confidence?

Question

how do you go about that? I wanna look confident to this girl I'm interested in.

Answer 1

To exude confidence, you have to feel confident. This is best done if you have good self esteem and have had plenty of practice talking to people of all ages and both genders.

I think this is probably where you are going to fall down, cos I'm thinking you're probably a geeky teenager who knows nothing about computers.

Is this girl into computers? If so, you can try and talk with her about them - and you can hopefully feel more confident about them.

You'd do best to talk about/think about subjects you are familiar with. Pick topics that girls relate to - not online roleplaying games or the hard drive capacity of your (dad's) laptop.

There's a good book I can recommend to you. Clive Webb "How To Pull Women". It has a section that deals with self-confidence.

"You too can use your imagination to make important changes, the ones that matte in your life and the ones you really want. The way to achieve this is by using a very powerful tool called 'Positive Suggestive Programming'...

"I myself have personally used the PSP techniques I'm going to describe to you to put me in the right frame of mind before a big strip show. I would sit and imagine myself standing on stage with the whole crowd of women on their feet cheering, screaming and applauding me. In my mind's eye each and every one of those women found me irresistible, so when the time actually came for me to walk on stage I already had them in the palm of my hand...

Write a list containing all of the changes you really want to make, and it's now time to start PSP for yourself. Take the list you've written and start imagining yourself actually having the things on it. Imagine yourself driving that flash motor, or showing off that chiselled torso on a crowded beach. As far as the girl from the club goes, do I really need to remind you what to imagine about her? I thought not."

Then he goes through a bunch of imagery techniques, giving permission for yourself to have everything on the list. Then there is a bit about looking the part and acting the part.

Girls generally like clean.

If you are clean and well presented, you will feel more confident and act more confidently.

Answer 2

Don't bathe for three weeks... its all in the pheremones and ketones ;)