Please read whole question to answer.My cousin acts over possesive to extent when he found out i loved this guy,sent him cards for his birthday,we know eachother 6years,are in love.My cousin tried to create trouble by saying my guy told him he didnt love me,gave cards i gave for his birthday back(when i ask cousin to show cards i gave my man he doesnt have it).He then befriended my man,told him that he shouldnt be loving me.My cousin says my man and i should be like brothers sisters to eachother.Recently my cousins behaviour has started scaring me he comes home talks to my girlfriends finds out everything about me and my friends talks to me like he owns me knows im with my man he gets very very angry/mad basically hes acting very strangely.What is happening?
2007-02-19 17:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by hiscaptiveher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is he being cousin or is he in love with me?
2007-02-19 17:33:48 · update #1
your cousin is in love with you.. sorry to say it but that's whats going on...
2007-02-19 17:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your cousin's got a crush on you, and is acting posessive. I would say it's the whole protective older brother/family member routine, but his actions are way too extreme for that to be the case. It's gotta be jealousy. Is this guy really your cousin? I'd stear clear of that guy, and tell your friends and your man to stay away from him too.
I realize that maybe you have feeling for him, but that kind of thing just isn't healthy. You've gotta separate yourself from him, or tell him to knock it off.
2007-02-20 01:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by anotherguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I think you know the answer here. Cousin is having some very "uncousinly" feelings. Or, cousin is feeling like the father/brother who thinks no one is good enough for his "little girl".
Exclude him for awhile.
2007-02-20 01:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u let ur cousin to do all this?? r u scared of him??
tell him to mind his own business and leave u alone!!!
2007-02-20 01:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say this is your cousin. What business is it of his? Tell him to butt-out....It ain't his place to tell you what to do and who to be with.
2007-02-20 01:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probly being aware for you maybee looking out for you.or hes in love ewww ask him
2007-02-20 01:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by karen a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE ME A BRAKE I NO YOUR NOT THAT STUPID YOU NO DAM RIGHT WELL YOUR COUSIN LIKES YOU.
2007-02-20 01:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋