I guess what i am trying to say is that he has a lot on his plate already and i dont know if i am dating someone who is probly not going to think in the same path i am. I would love to have children and have a husband but am i dating the wrong person? What do i do?
2007-02-19 17:21:48 · 7 answers · asked by Katie D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's had his children. He may not want more. Does he have custody? If he does, are you ready to be an instant full time mother? Step children are the number one cause of divorce in 2nd marriages. You're right, his plate is full. I'd run as fast as I could.
2007-02-19 17:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old he is, and how old kids are? Are you going to be caring for the kids?
My husband and I met when I was just short of 30 years old and he was about 34 and in the middle of divorcing wife #2. We didn't have his kids but had mine on and off over the years. They were primarily in the care of their paternal grandmother.
I'll be 48 in September and we've been together that whole time. LOL, we didn't get married until my 40th birthday, though!!
2007-02-19 17:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are worried about your future with this guy. If you are prepared to be a step mother, go ahead. Why not find someone who does not have so much on his plate? Do you know why he left his wives and kids?
2007-02-19 17:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are dating the wrong person, you probably are, so dont wait til you are stuck in an unhappy situation...find someone you are compatiable with...fix the problem now..
2007-02-19 17:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you two want different things... but talk to him and see what it is that he wants if not then... find someone else who wants those things.
2007-02-19 17:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww yeal just have faith and dont ruch it but i would be into more then one guy i mean just so u dont miss out on nothing :) good luck
2007-02-19 17:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. run girl run
2007-02-19 17:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by wombatwaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋