why are sagittarius men so elusive?

Question

I recently started dating a very cute sag about three months ago and at first everything was perfect. He was a total gentleman, kind and warm and also very affectionate. Then from one day to the next after our third date he stopped calling. Of course he said he would and he did not. He made me feel so comftorable that I felt that it would be okay for me to call him. Then to no avail he did not answer and I found this to be soo bizaree. I mean the night before was full of passionate kissing and mind you this was the time of the holidays where people are supposed to want to be around one another. Although I must addd that something very tragic happened to him this year and he lost someone who was very dear to him. When we finally talked he stated that he needed to be alone and that he did not want to socialize or do anything because of how he was feeling about his loss, that the holidays just made that worse for him. I am I supposed to believe this? I mean it was just so wierd?

Answer 1

All Sags are different and our male counterparts are even worse than we are in some departments. Number 1, he may have enjoyed the chase with you, but once he captured you, it's no longer a challenge for him. Number 2, he might be feeling that the relationship is getting serious and is bolting for the door before it's too late. Sags value their freedom and independence above everything. They won't give up those things easily and without a good fight. Number 3, if he is going through a great loss in his life, he could have a bout of depression from losing this person. We are known to have our moments of depression, especially when we lose people that are close to our hearts. Give him a bit more time and don't suffocate, confine or pursue him aggressively. He will run from you. If he doesn't come back to you on his own, then he's gone for good.

Answer 2

The real reason you probably have "man problems" is that you pay too much attention to astrology. Perhaps if you judged people by their REAL character and not by some phony Zodiac personality, you'd have less problems with your relationships with men. I guarantee you that you can find millions of men just like you described that are not sagittarius. You can conversely find many that are totally different than what you described that are. This guy, regardless of which month he was born in, is obviously leading you on. He wants less out of the relationship that you do. It is time to move on.

Answer 3

why you care about the horoscope?? it can be bloodtype or anything else too. foget about the category and just focus on him.

he is strange because a) something bad happened to him and he doesnt want to open his door to anyone b) he met someone else and lost interests on you c) you just think too much/too sensitive

i think you can just tell him honest how you feel and how you confuse as a normal discussion not an argument. just show how much you care about him. then i think he will break the ice.
wish you luck!