Needy men follow me-help! How can I get out of this funk?
2007-02-19 16:58:41 · 11 answers · asked by Red Carpet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
darling, you have a loser magnet!
get rid of it
start with improving your self-esteem, you might deny you have a low one, but that's your ego making up for the low esteem
raise your standards, don't spread your legs too eagerly, because that's what the loser boys want
2007-02-19 17:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by onemark1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to guess your mate selection has a lot to be re-evaluated. First and foremost you attract the type of men you dress, talk, perceive to desire. So if you dressed like a librarian perhaps the nerds will want to date you. Now if you dress like the street walkers with low cut blouse and tight pants then your gonna get the players perhaps. However, If you dress like the simple honest girl next door... Perhaps good quality souls might find you obtainable and Marryable.
Now part two, your selection of men. I suspect a nerd bores you. players irritate you, bad boys probably excite you most. See where this is going? Who you portray yourself being is for the most part whom you attract.
2007-02-20 01:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the guys you're attracting are losers....which is a reflection of yourself.
Stop dating for a while and take a good look at yourself to see why you are attracting these guys. Did you have a bad long-term relationship before coming across these losers? Did something happen in your past?
You'll find out once you examine yourself.
2007-02-20 01:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I know it sounds strange, but go for guys that you're not attracted to. To break the cycle you need to try something completely different. I had to do the same thing, and I can say that it's worked. I'm 27 and am involved with a very independent woman.
2007-02-20 01:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time to reunite with your girlfriends and give the men a rest for a bit.
2007-02-20 01:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably just really independant, find a strong independant man. your luck will change!!! needy men cling onto strong women- trust me - find someone that doesn't need you- but instead simply wants you.
2007-02-20 01:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by readytorun67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't bad luck! it's just that you haven't met the right guy yet! may be you're trying too hard! Think you should just relax and one day, the right guy will come along ;)
2007-02-20 01:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it's not the man .
you could be drama queen .
2007-02-20 01:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slam dunk the funk!!!!
2007-02-20 01:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can u explain your situation a little better?
2007-02-20 01:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by melissa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋