So my good good friend and I have been hommies for a while now and i guess these past few years he's always had a thing for me. Just recently, we've discovered that we're both falling for each other. I don't get it - relationships before...if i got "physical" with a guy (in any way: holding hands, kissing, whatever), i always got that "high" feeling - like a teenager raging with hormones. But now, when i'm "physical" with him - i don't get that "hormone" feeling but more of a "sweet comfort" feeling. One little touch of him, and i get butterflies. I wake up in the morning with a text from him and my heart beats loud and you can heart it (like when you're really nervous and you feel you're sticks out and "thugs" loud). What is this? Is there no passion????
2007-02-19 16:53:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, there's passion, but seeing how you've known each other for so long, it just kinda seems 'normal'. I dated my best friend several years ago, and although I got the butterflies, the kisses were not what some people would call passionate. We had been intimate before we decided to try a relationship, but it wasn't the same as being "together". Give it some time and you'll probably see that it's going to be a great relationship.
You are most definitely in love with him, and he probably feels the same way towards you.
I wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-02-19 16:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, in the past it seems like you were jsut sorta "In a relationship" with people that make you happy, and so you were tellign yourself to be happy. Now, though, you are genuinly happy and comfortable with no effort.
Shortly, It's called love.
2007-02-19 17:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like love, which is very different from lust, which is what it seems you were feeling with the guys in the past. sounds so sweet!
2007-02-19 16:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's simple... you're in love with this guy. the butterflies, the loud heartbeat, you are comfortable with this guy, and you love him, and you are in love with him. hard to admit, but you are IN LOVE girl!
2007-02-19 16:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by jocjac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love, and love is comfortable and stable
2007-02-19 16:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's gas stay away from beans that should help.
2007-02-19 16:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is amor, sweet amor....
2007-02-19 16:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by Metallico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋