Me and my bf have been havin problems for a a while now. He really doesn't trust me b/c of a issue in the past. I did not cheat on him or ne thing. Since than he doesnt want me to talk to ne of a my male friends. (Just friends to me.) He is always gettin mad at me for things i dont even no why. Him and his anger is drivin me slowly alway from him. We can be so happy at one point than once he goes home or someone calls he gets bak mad at me, i dont understand. Could some one help me out? What should i do?
2007-02-19 16:49:03 · 8 answers · asked by pookiebabygirl08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guy also feels insecure, but they would rather die then show it, put yourself in his shoes, im sure as a sensitive female, you will find out whats wrong. Then try your best to solve it, but the best is to ask him personally, what is the problem, its better then leaving the problem alone and hope that it will go away.
2007-02-19 16:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get out of that relationship. Believe it or not, this is actually an abusive relationship and nobody needs to be in a situation like that.
This is why it's abusive: one minute you're happy and he's happy and everything's hunky-dory. Next minute, he's p.o.ed about something, whether it's you or something you did or nothing having to do with you, you still bear the brunt of it. It may not be physical abuse, but it is emotional and mental abuse. It's wrong and you don't need to be in a relationship like that.
My advice, get out now. He doesn't trust you. He won't let you talk to your friends. He makes you stress out when he gets mad or upset. Not healthy all around.
Good luck.
2007-02-19 16:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by grizabellamom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him thats the key to a good relationship and another big thing to a relationship is trust and obviously he doesnt trust you so i think you need to break up with him!!
hope everything goes well with you two
2007-02-19 16:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time. If he can't trust you, the relationship is quite obviously unstable.
Do you want this for the rest of your life?
2007-02-19 16:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by DollsTasteGood.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him that you are going to do what you want, it's not like it's wrong, and if he can't deal with that then you need to split.. he's only going to get more controlling.
2007-02-19 16:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by good things last 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not have trust in you, then why do u take care of him. Just leave him.
2007-02-19 16:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Atif Majid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just ask a similar question, only you said you did cheat on him?
2007-02-19 16:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about this first. If it's not budging, give him an option: either you change, or i go. Good luck!
2007-02-19 16:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋