So I can't get this boy out of my head, he won't go away. Thing is, we havnt talked since last year, and we wernt friends then. And this year we have no classes together, I'm so mad. I want to get to know him better, but he doesnt have a myspace, facebook, or aim. And e-mail would just be wierd. Plus, he lives a good 20 minutes away, and we don't have the same friends! How do I possibly approach him?!
2007-02-19 16:48:32 · 9 answers · asked by Cas24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So I can't get this boy out of my head, he won't go away. Thing is, we havnt talked since last year, and we wernt friends then. And this year we have no classes together, I'm so mad. I want to get to know him better, but he doesnt have a myspace, facebook, or aim. And e-mail would just be wierd. Plus, he lives a good 20 minutes away, and we don't have the same friends! How do I possibly approach him?!
The good thing is, I do enough to understand we would work for each other, and I know where he parks his car in the morning, so I try and see him there. That's all I have though...
2007-02-19 16:55:28 · update #1
If you had more information about him it might turn you off, so if you want to keep your fantasy do not seek more information.
2007-02-19 16:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on a group date! Just don't call it a date! Get together with some friends and invite him and his friends, somewhere in between the two places. If you xwanna be romantic; a movie. Less stressful could be like an arcade...water park, theme park, depends on where you live. It would also to help if you had a good friend to help you plan everyhting out, that knows what you are feeling, then it won't seem so awkard setting things up. And after the first not-date, see where it goes from there, or post another question! :P
2007-02-19 16:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
email may seem weird at first but if you really trully want to get to know this person this may be the only place you can start off at. You could use email to kinda break the ice....maybe let him know that he caught your eye awhile back, and to this day you are still very fascinated and intrigued by him and would like to take the opportunity to get to know him better....then maybe arrange to hang out and have lunch or dinner together and take things from there....who knows maybe once you get to know him you may not be as interested in him....OR maybe he has been secretely crushing on you too but he has been to afraid to make the first move.
My fiance and i met through email...it may seem weird at first but hey it maybe worth the risk....Good Luck.
2007-02-19 17:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by mamacita25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you can find out where he works and conveniently drop in. The only reason I say this is because that is precisely what I plan to do tomorrow to make contact with a girl.
2007-02-19 16:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by G-Lanz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut talk to him. something has to be on that you all go to? dances or parties? you be friendly, mention you like his shirt and tell him looks cute, if eh doesnt have a b/f... you must of spoken to him before... so just go up and say you've missed talking to him! be friendly and smile the whole time. good luck babe
2007-02-19 16:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to a youth group function at your nearby Christian Church and/or better yet have some of the youth brothers invite him. If you don't belong to a Christian youth group, join one ASAP and you will be pleasantly surprised!!!
Sista C
2007-02-19 17:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by sista c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whenever you see him, just go up and start a conversation and take it from there.
2007-02-19 16:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by obvious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep asking around - i'm sure there's someone who's bound to know him!
2007-02-19 16:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't!
2007-02-19 16:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by Chilling Gangster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋