I'm friends with this guy {Justin} i always buy him every thing and do what ever he tells me too. Usally he is nice to me but now all he seems to do is talk behind my back. I just found out two days ago and when I said something to him and he got really mad and said the only reason he does it is cause his friends do. The only reason is cause me and Justin did things together and one of hes friends asked if he could join too and i told him no so he has a *** to me sence then. So now Justin is going to act funky to me. I do every thing for him why is he like that. I heared him say that { wacth this i have this ***** on lock} I dont know why he thinks this cause i do every thing for him cause i want to not cause he thinks hes a pimp. I'm a really nice girl and i see guys doing theys things to girls all the time. But I just dont know why they do it. Could someone pleace tell me?
2007-02-19 16:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Baby girl,
Please dont generalise all guys just because one of them turned out to be a dirtbag. All guys are not the same. There are guys out there who genuinely respect women. The way I see it, he doesnt deserve all the attention you are giving him. The fact that he has someone like you (you seem to be a nice one), has gone to his head. Ignore him for sometime so that he can feel how much you mean to him.
Lots of love,
Swordfish
2007-02-19 17:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by swordfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perheps you will not believe, but you had made Justin as you have liked but could not because you may not be clear in your views, it may not be Justin but you yourself need to be more precise about your stand and the same may be the case with Justin.
He also may not be clear for his stand about you and so there is a mess-up like this.
You could sit together, discuss the things and let both know clearly about each other`s stand.
2007-02-20 04:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Karsan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you allow him to treat you like a doormat?Sometimes we think with our heart and not our head.If Justin only wants to string you along as a convenience,That's the beginning of disaster.Lay down some rules,do's and donts.See if he behaves any better.No change,cut him adrift.good luck
2007-02-20 01:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys hate to admit they like a gal as it seems to make them feel like they are a pusssy so they treat us mean but they reali wish they didnt have to guys are jerks but they can be so sweet when you on your own all you have to do is leave him to it when he with his mates then when he get on his own tell him he hurts you and that you care for him and just want him to show you he cares. guys have very big egos and you have to be careful you dont bruse it or he will never treat you right.
2007-02-20 05:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by persian gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahah
well for most guys its "male" thing to do...mess around with "bitchez" and do as many as you can, and no matter what male friend you have, if youve done something with him chances are his "boys" know.....so eh
girls are ho's guys treat em like ho's
its rare to actually find a nice lady in the world today......
2007-02-20 01:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by elmarroafamado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'r todays nice girl...keep it up..humm whatever your justin is using you and doesnt respect you and one day you will end up with loosing your self esteem (as u said you'r nice) so decide what you want to lose that guy or you'r esteem and values?
2007-02-20 01:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by singleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this relationship fast. Dump him before he even realises. He doesn't care for you or your feelings. All he cares about is s.e.x and his friends. He's with you for this reason only.
2007-02-20 05:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by kchl_dk007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we tolerate being treated like hoe's. once you stop taking it - it won't happen anymore. women and men suck- its part of life. decide now what you'll take. if you don't like being treated like a hoe- walk away.
2007-02-20 01:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by readytorun67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have not experienced anything like that . so cant comment on this.
2007-02-20 02:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so this is why most girls turn into bit*hes......interesting
2007-02-20 01:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by Clementine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋