first, he really REALLY likes to make "car accidents" with his cars and then go "oh no", I have never seen a kid do that at his age. Second, He really like to vacuum.
Third, he has a speech problem like pizza will be "pacca", or cartoons "cacca" or camera "camra"...is he developing right or what?
2007-02-19 16:20:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I'm a married man since 8 years. I've seen my wife bringing up the kids. Off course beside my office commitments I had been a help to her. My mother and father had been guiding us in this regards. We have 3 children, 1 son and 2 daughters. They are grown up now and behaving normal.
I feel u need a doctor, because your mental state is different and abnormal. Lady for heavens sake let him do what so ever he is doing, Yes u can mold his eating, sleeping, pissing, toilet habits, by teaching a little bit things. More over while at home working in side the house u should talk to him what so ever u wanna discuss with some elder. For example u wanna choose some thing to cook just ask him which one. Kids listen the words, analyze and then try to speak those words. So speak in front of him. He will learn.
Kids have habit of copying and co-relating the incidents, so don't worry he is behaving normal.
2007-02-19 18:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Not only does he sound normal, he sounds like FUN! I used to provide daycare for a boy who liked to smash his dinosaurs together and make them eat each other. He and I had a blast playing like that and I used the time to teach him the difference between carnivores and herbivores. Bet you didn't know a 2 year old could distinguish a T-Rex from a Brontosaurus? Well, they can. Play with him! Teach him about how to stay safe when a car hits another car! Or how to call for help when he's in a car accident. Use your time wisely. You only have a few years before he's too cool to be seen with you and you're begging him to come home once in a while.
Also, enjoy the vacumming while it lasts. Trust me, you'll miss him "helping" when he whines about doing the slightest chore. And you'll look back and say, "Whatever happened to my little prince who loved to help his mommy?"
The speech thing? Stop reading all those damn articles in parenting magazines and on the internet. They will have you conviced your son is Autistic before you know it! 2 years and he already knows all those words! Who cares if he's still speakiong his own language! He's got the language skills, just not the pronunciation! If he's 5 and still talking like that, then worry. Until then gently correct him, for example, when he says "Pacca" you say "Yes, Pizza is very yummy isn't it? Mommy loves Pizza too!" He'll get it.
2007-02-20 03:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Bonnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The car crashes are very normal, almost every child does that and gets a kick out of it, they're learning. The vacumming is actually a calming sound, I bet he's not doing too good of a job, but the noise calms them down. And the words he uses is how he remembers the foods. The real pronouciations will slowly kick in. You really only have to woory if he starts torturing little animals, then you have real problems.
2007-02-20 00:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by kmusmc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is very normal! my son will fight me for the mop and scream if he cant sweep the floor,he also LOVES the washing machine! he loves it so much i had to buy him a toy one! he has many times taken my clothes out of the washing machine and put them in the tumble dryer without my help,he even knows how to turn it on!!
there is nothing wrong with a boy wanting to hoover up or help with house work! i'm really pleased my son is enjoying it,as this should hopefully make him more independant when he lives alone or when he need to clean up after himself as a teen.
(enjoy it while you can,it prob wont last long lol)
my son does talk alot and can say lots of words but they are not, and are not expected, to be perfect,it will get better the more he hears it, and as he gets older.
2007-02-23 19:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by yummy_mummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with the way your son is playing. My 3 year old does the same thing with his cars. He also plays with his Spiderman and Superman alternatively, saving each other from "Monsters". My son also likes to vacuum. Sometimes he takes his toy one out while I'm vacuuming, sometimes he runs around with his dumptruck, as if I am chasing him and he needs to get out of the way.
As for his speech, there is nothing wrong with it. He is still only two. Some words are easier to pronounce than others.
Don't worry, he is doing fine. Let him play and imagine, imitate you doing housework, and if he's stumbling on words, try to help him through them. Don't worry if he doesn't catch on to them right away, he'll get them soon enough.
2007-02-20 00:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by imcalledlisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The vacuuming thing is normal, they like to imitate, has he seen any car accidents? Maybe on tv? As far as speech you may want to consult your pediatrician about seeing a speech therapist. S's or Z's are difficult to pronounce but I think the guideline is 5 before they should be expected to fully be able to pronounce them. My older sister (24) cannot do r's and w's properly.
2007-02-20 00:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by tylw85 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has probably been seeing that on TV. If it bothers you, then monitor what he sees on TV. He wants to vacuum so he can be mommy's helper. I wouldn't worry about his speech yet. A lot of 2 yr olds are barely saying a few words. You sound like you have your hands full
with a very normal little boy. Enjoy him while he's little.
2007-02-20 00:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey don't worry, he's perfectly normal. My two year old does the same things, he loves to help mommy clean up.
As for the speech problem, at two he is just learning how to pronounce things, give it a couple more years before you start to worry. And mine loves to make "accidents" with his cars too, it's fun for them and boys love anything that makes noise, he's fine sweetie don't worry.
2007-02-20 02:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry my husband use to do that all the time when he was little like when he would take a bath he would play with his cars and act like they had accidents and landed in the water. He also loved to vaccuum. And he grew up to be very smart, but lazy.
2007-02-20 00:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by MELISSA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of these things are totally normal and you have nothing to worry about. It is normal for kids not to pronouce things right up to the age of six. Boys love to make cars, and all other forms of transportaion, "crash". He loves the vacuum because it is a tool, it makes noise, and it is fun! Take advantage of this one and let him help you with the housework! :)
2007-02-20 01:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by snowangel_az 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋