So my girlfriend broke up with me because "our personalities don't match" but we had been dating for 2 1/2 years and she went out on a couple of dates with one of my friends 6 and 7 days later and they were "officaly" dating 9 days after she dumped me. I'm rally torn up and my "friend" isn't being too friendly about it and she won't even give me the time of day. But I am still have dreams about her every night and it's been 2 weeks. There is another girl that my friends and her friedns think i should talk to but i don't really know what to do. I kinda like her but i know i still love my ex and it would not be fair to the girl if i went out with her and i really didn't like her and i was just looking to be with someone. So should i try really hard for my ex because i know i love her or should i go on to the other girl and forget all about it?
2007-02-19 16:12:00 · 9 answers · asked by hamsterman222 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't date while on a rebound.. You'll end up hurting an innocent girl along the way.. by the way the reason that your gf gave you was simply bull.. i think she should have been more honest with you when she broke up with you. The "personality don't match " reason is absolutely unacceptable. I mean you dated for more than 2 years she owes you more than this.. To be honest with you I think she could have been seeing your friend behind your back .. i don't know her personally but i think you don't move on that easily with someone after being in a long-term relationship. It takes time to forget someone esp people we love. I think your gf is not worth it but if you want her back fight for her but don't move on with another girl till you have completely gotten over your past.
2007-02-19 16:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie it sounds like you really like this girl but there is no reason to beat yourself up over her mistakes. Im not saying rush back into the dating scene yourself just yet, but I am trying to say that maybe if you appear to not be interested in her than maybe she'll come around at least thats what most girls do trust me I've been one my entire life! Good Luck and if this doesn't work out for you then I'm sure there is someone much better for you waiting for you to snacth her off her feet.
2007-02-19 16:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, its time to date someone else...just go out for the sake of going out NOT looking for a new love yet of course. I think that will help you alot even if you don't think so right now.Just to fine someone who you can be with to have a good time and talk to is a start. Good luck
2007-02-19 16:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by ohio_angell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you LOVE your ex and NOT the other girl, follow your heart and talk to the other girl and tell her how you feel, I'm sure she will understand, if she don't then shes not good. If you love your ex go talk to her. Tell her you really love her, but be your self, dont be all fancy and stuff trying to impress her. Ask her out and show her how great you really are.
2007-02-19 16:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by fatcatcasey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex just doesnt feel the same for you anymore. You need to move on. dont go out with the new girl YET, give it a little while, like a month, and go for it!
2007-02-19 16:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by ashley-girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shlould move on, because she already did after just 9 days. Everything happenen for a reason. Just let it goes and find someone who is appreciate you.
2007-02-19 16:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it. enjoy your solitude. hang out with friends.
2007-02-19 16:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her why isshe your ex-girlfriend
2007-02-19 16:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it burn homeboy... let it burn
2007-02-19 16:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by chilledguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋