i have been going out with my giorlfriend for six months, she finally blew me but she was really rought with the teeth and it hurt, how can i tell her to be easier next time without hurting her feelings, shatterin her confidence, or scaring her from doin it again
2007-02-19 16:10:39 · 17 answers · asked by dts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Compliment her on what she does right, tell her that you love that she wants to pleasure you then ask her nicely to not use her teeth because it is so sensitive. You have to let her know what you personally like, after she starts doing it the way you would like, then make sure you make a little(or a lot!) of noise to let her know she's doing it right. All guys are different, so some other guy she has performed oral sex on may have liked oral sex that way or a lot of her technique may be due to inexperience. Either way,take this opportunity to train her(nicely!) the way you like it. Enjoy.
2007-02-19 16:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm...
With most girls, the mood of the foreplay determines how gentle/rough they'll try to be during oral sex. If you and your girlfriend tend to be a little more on the rough side while making out- lots of little nibbles, hickey-causing bites, nails, etc- then it sets the mood for her to be rough.
Try being gentle and romantic during foreplay. Although hormones are rushing and you're ready to throw your clothes off in a couple of seconds, go slow, and try and touch her as softly as you can. This ought to tell her that you want to be gentle this time around, and should reflect in oral sex.
If the second time round doesn't bring any changes, then be honest with her. Take a couple of stabs at your manliness ("I know I act all tough, but I'm really delicate") to make her feel better about herself. Let her know that you trust her, and that her skills at oral sex, or lack there of, aren't going to change how you feel- just how you two play. ^_^
2007-02-20 00:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ai-chan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure that she knows that you love it.. and the next time she does it, just tell her you want to feel her lips on you or something... tell her that her teeth feel rough... anything like that... if you tell her "You're doing it wrong, don't use your teeth" she'll be offended. And when she doesn't use her teeth, make sure you moan even more and tell her that's the best it's ever felt. She'll catch on in no time.
2007-02-20 00:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her... I really like when you do this but you are a little rough with your teeth. You wont upset her, just talk about what you like and ask her what she likes and you both will learn from it, she seems to not be that comfortable if it took that long, so be gentle and teach her to love it has much as you love it.
2007-02-20 00:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and open WHILE she's doing it, and explain what hurts, and what feels good. That is the only way to tell her. Be forewarned, some females just are not good at oral sex, and/or have things like a crossbite that can cause them to use more teeth than they mean to. Also, if you guide her head(Which some girls don't like.), that can cause her to use more teeth than she meant to also. Just for future reference.
2007-02-20 00:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by MilitiaMasterV 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not every girl is into fellatio and maybe this might be her own passive/aggressive way of letting you know this. Do you return the favor? If not, you should and do it good. After when she's relaxed you can gently bring up your dilemma. I bet she'll be more receptive and better. Hey, what's fair is fair.
2007-02-20 00:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell he what you like, guide her hand and mouth gently to teach her how to do it the way that is best for you. Open and honest communication will only make your relationship better.
2007-02-20 00:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lynsey T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell her...coz im a rough girl and sometimes i dont know if hes getting hurt or not.
2007-02-20 00:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When its happening you probly dont want to say anything cus that will ruin it. Just come out, and tell her to be more gentle.
2007-02-20 00:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by azº 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth or get another guy and you show her how to do it.
2007-02-20 00:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋