2007-02-19 16:04:34 · 28 answers · asked by christinag1310 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not tell him. You may think you are doing him a favor, but it's actually a selfish action because you'd only be relieving your guilty conscience. Silently promise yourself that you won't do it again. But if you can't do that and you'd rather be with this other guy, then break up with your bf and just say that you don't feel as close as you once did. There is no need to unnecessarily hurt his feelings and impede his ability to trust later. You might want to think about what you're missing in your relationship that would motivate you to cheat. While you are not a bad person for cheating and everyone makes mistakes, you could deal with this in a way that would be more constructive to others and yourself.
2007-02-19 16:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
I think this all fake you girls do every time , now please answer few questions to your self
1. Do i have a boy friend ?
2. Do i really love him ?
If your answer is yes then you would never have done this, even if you think after having sex with any other guy your boy friend will forgive you, then its wrong , he might forgive but he will not forget that words.
relationship strands on point of a pin just trusting each other you just imagine how things can go wrong
My answer is no , never let him know that you have slept with another guy
2007-02-20 00:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sharuk khan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to just tell him that you are not an honest person, that you can't be trusted anymore, and that you want to end the relationship because you have slept with this guy twice, which considers you in being a 'whore' and who really doesn't even respect herself and her body.
Just tell him the truth, but stop sleeping around. You need to start respecting your body and stop being an easy target for guys to just want you for just 'sex'. I really think your boyfriend deserves someone better than you. Sorry, for being so harsh with words, but someone has to tell you. Tell him the truth.
2007-02-20 00:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You find a good time to talk, sit him down and tell him outright. You guys need to discuss whether this will be the end of the relationship, or if you are willing to move on. The best thing you can do now is to be honest and get it all out there.
2007-02-20 00:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by westieluv24 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you love this guy and want to be with him then you should let him know. It's going to be hard and you're going to risk the chance of losing him, however you want have the guilt of keeping a secret from him. Also, if he chose to be with you then it will show him that you're sorry for your mistake and he can trust you because you came clean. If he finds out on his own it's just going to be a lot of heartache and pain for the both of you. If this guy is good to you and you truly love him, don't cheat on him again. Good guys are extremely hard to come by.
2007-02-20 00:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just have to sit him down and tell him that you have been unfaithful. Better to go ahead and tell him before he finds out from someone else. Secrets have a way of always coming out one way or another. You can beg for forgiveness, but your relationship is more than likely over. Good Luck.
2007-02-20 00:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by gasnshngrl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to tell him now, the long that you wait the more hurt he is going to be.
He may break up with you but dont let that stop you from telling him. I personally have a major problem with cheating; however, I am not aware of your cirumstances. Just sit him down and tell him straight up, he is going to be mad, he will probably want to break up.
You made a choice and now you have to deal with the concequences.
2007-02-20 00:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I guess you have to ask yourself why he's your boyfriend, and what is it about this other guy that's worth losing your boyfriend - because that's likely what's going to happen when your BF finds out. I say this because you just about gave your BF the worst slap in the face possible and you can't possibly expect him to be real happy about it. If he is forgiving, he is worth keeping. If not, I hope it was all worth it to you.
2007-02-20 00:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lightshow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't you just tell that you need to move on because you don't respect him and you should get down on your knees to ask for his forgiveness, you don't care about he's feelings, you never been hurt because or cheated on. Your to young be your about to grow up fast when it comes to playing with someone’s emotions and feelings.
I hope you always remember how you’re about to make him feel! You’ll never wish this on anyone in the future.
Why do we go out of are way just to hurt others? If you want out don’t go sleep with others just leave, it still going to hurt but hell not that bad.
2007-02-20 00:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just tell him. And then expect to be broken up with.
Sorry dear, but I know few people who are willing to let cheating go in a relationship.
EDIT: I'm surprised at the number of people saying, "Don't tell him." So much for relationships being based on honesty and faithfulness.
2007-02-20 00:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋