I seem to have a good first date but then it all ends. What do i do to improve?

Question

First i would like to start off by saying that most girls think i'm a model yet i can't seem to succeed with women. They love me the first nite, we laugh, joke around, i tease them, they like it but afterwards they tell me they only want to be friends. They tell me on the date that they want to do it again. I even kiss them and kissed in return yet when i ask them out again, they say they are busy until finally they stop responding to me altogether. I feel trapped. I'm considered very handsome by most women and i'm humble about my looks, not conceited at all. I do everything right to get them to like me after the first date but then afterwards they don't want anything to do with me. What's going on here?

Answer 1

You might ask some of these girls what they had a problem with so you can fix it.

Answer 2

you don't need to change a thing except your attitude and understanding of the opposite sex. Women (and men) feel threatened when they are in the company of someone with great looks.

Why, you may ask?

Well, it is a self-esteem issue. Unless the woman you are with feel comfortable with who she is and knows exactly what she wants out of life, you are going to threaten those who are unsure of themselves.

The logic goes like this:

"Gosh..this guy is so good-looking, why is he bothering with me. There are so many other women who are better looking than I am. I know that I would never be able to keep him. I knw that he would find someone better looking andc dump me in a second."

So what do they do? They "slap their own hand," so to speak. To avoid what they see as the inevitable, and to save face, they end any possibility of a love the relationship one way or another.

Being just friends means guarding one's heart and playing it safe.

So, the solution for you is to find someone who is not threatened at all by your good looks and who likes you for what's on the inside rather than what's on the outside.