i really think im in love with this girl who is practicly muh best friend and she knows andd we dated before but i really love her!!!and she sys she is not good nough for me and she dont deserve me i really need help plz tell me what can i do this si sos so serious!!
2007-02-19 15:27:24 · 14 answers · asked by Austin P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she has low self esteem. I think that she might like you too but be scared that you will be disappointed with her.
If you say that you're in love with her, I am sure that she's scared that you're in love with the IDEA of her, and thinks that you don't know who she actually is. She's probably concerned that you can't see her flaws, and that when you see them, you'll lose interest.
I've had best guy friends tell me that they love me but I've always felt like they didn't know me well enough or deeply enough to love me. Noone can live up to the perfect fantasy that people create.
If you want to show her and convince her that you really love her, tell her all the little things that you like about her. And make her understand that you're aware of her flaws (without making her feel bad and pointing them out). This should make her realise that you're seeing her properly.
2007-02-19 15:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Snow White 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's right your to good for her, cauz no guy would accept that he is in love! But if you really like this gurl u should go after her. Take her out, somewhere romantic and talk it over. Ask her why she thinks your too good for her. But the question would be if she likes u. Love hurts but u should never give up cauz u never know if there would be a chance like this, with this gurl.
2007-02-19 15:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by 18forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know feel how you my girl friend is my best friend and we been going out for a year i mean if u two have stuff in common you should go for it i mean the relationship will be better because u guys will already know almost everything about each other and if she says that shes not good of for u, u should tell that to let u be the judge of that and if u fell that shes good for u tell her and hopefully she will feel the same way to
2007-02-19 15:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by thegame082002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and how much she means to you. she may be going through some self esteem concerns...when she says she doesn't deserve you and she's not good enough for you...because you're a really great person and she doesn't think she is. just encourage her and love her no matter what. be there for her.
2007-02-19 15:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by empathetic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 08:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to tell you nicely that she doesn't think you and she should go out. She has her own reasons. Accept it and don't pressure her. Continue to be her friend if you really care about her friendship. If she changes her mind about you, she'll let you know.
2007-02-19 15:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By saying she's not good enough for you probably means that she's not interested in trying out a romantic relationship with you again. Sorry. :(
2007-02-19 15:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by vacantbuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like maybe shes having some self esteem issues here.if you are truly interested in her then give her feed back with positive reinforcement,sounds like she needs to know that shes worthy of having someone care/love her
2007-02-19 15:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force a girl to love you.... I can't offer you any good advice but just to let you know........ you're in the "friend" zone
2007-02-19 15:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the girl likes you too,but she just putting herself down...tell her that she's enough for you and she deserves you cause you love her.try to raise her up always...cause she is just putting her self down...good luck
2007-02-19 15:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by naberey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋