why do girls always blame the guy for all the problems, as if we dont make mistakes ourselves??? yes im a girl and i dont think we should blame the men as much as we do, why is everyhting all their fault??? "it takes two to tango".
2007-02-19 15:19:55 · 20 answers · asked by carebear_destroyer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we act as if we dont ever lie or cheat. we need to accept the fact we have mad ebad choices too
2007-02-19 15:30:09 · update #1
You are right, when you have a meaningul relationship it is a 2 sided shared thing. Sometimes 1 or the other may be at fault but it's not necessarily always one gender. More often problems are there on both sides. I love your attititude dear, very mature and some guy is going to be very fortuate to win your heart
2007-02-19 15:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases I would agree with you.Because some woman don't appreciate when they have a good guy,and it makes it bad for the rest of us.But then again alot of things are guys fault,like the cheating and lieing.I think that if they made a serious effort in talking more about how they feel it might help woman understand them better and there would be less room for mistakes and fault on either side.
2007-02-19 15:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True it does take 2, but in most cases it's just that the guy tends to get too stupid for his own good. I'm a guy myself, but i'll be the first to tell you that 8 times out of 10 it's the guys fault. I see it every day with a guy I work with. He's not happy with his wife of like 30 years, so he choses to talk to other women all the time. So yeah, i'll agree with most women when they say guy's are jerks, because we can be.
2007-02-19 15:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump all the blame on the person who isn't yourself. That is the easiest way and, having two sisters, I know girls (and people in general not just girls) would rather blame anyone or anything possible than admit that they were wrong. I normally find that the girls are still attached to the guys and still have feelings for them and find it necessary to "demonize" the guy in order to try to deal with such feelings.
2007-02-19 15:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by llllllllll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very good point. But I have a comment to make. Girls are so sincere in not wanting to ever break a guys heart, but they are so good at it. As a guy I will take the RESPONSIBILITY for messing up, but not the blame. Can girls at least meet us half way?
2007-02-19 15:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets put it in these words, you tell your boyfriend to take out the garbage for Friday you remind him on Monday, Tuesday Wednesday and Thursday, Friday comes You get up in the morning and the garbage is stil sitting there, and the garbage truck is just passing. You get Frustrated right? You make breakfast get the kids up sit them down they eat, you send them to school you get ready for work and go, you get a call during a meeting that your child has falen and the school nurse thinks he brooke his arm, you call your guy, you can't get a hold of him, so you run out of the meeting to the school to the hospital you sit there for four hours, just for a doctor to say your child has a broken arm. So you wait another 30 minutes for the cast, you get home and you find your man on the couch with your other three children running around, and as they see you they want dinner. Now tell me, whose fault is it that? Yes I know this is one hell of a day, but wow could he get up off his a** ? Now tell me what takes two in that one? Another example, you are laying in bed with yur man, you want sex, but he's too tired, what the hell has he been doing to be tired from, it sparks an argument, whose fault is that argument?
2007-02-19 15:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Zig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does everything have to be turned into a guys versus girls issue? people tend to blame the other person. girls blame guys, guys blame girls, girls blame girls, guys blame guys, husbands blame the wives and vice versa.
no one wants to admit that they were at fault. and why does someone have to be blamed. whatever happened to "spit happens:" and let it go at that. why do we feel we need to go over and over and over the problem until we can figure out how to blame the other person?
geez my man and i had a battle the other night - i have no problem telling you it was his fault! lol!! in truth it was my fault, but its sure hard to say "i was wrong"
in fact i hate admitting i made a mistake in judgement or whatever, but every time i admit to whatever it is, it makes me a stronger person!
so grow up - look in the mirror and practice saying
"i was wrong" and then admit it when you are.
2007-02-19 15:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people often feel the need to blame another because it is easier to do that then do some soul searching.and your right it takes two either both or none may be at fault but by the nature of the world sometimes we are just unwilling to compromise.
2007-02-19 15:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do not always blame the guys...well perhaps most do, but I am sure they have decent reasons unless they are in denial. Maybe most girls blame guys because girls are generally more emotional with expressing themselves whereas guys are not usually as expressive.
2007-02-19 15:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by ♥CJ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read " The Flower and the Seasons," in windwalkers 360.
2007-02-19 15:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by windwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋