So what happened was, I asked this girl out, but I didn't know her too well and I was a nervous wreck when I asked her out, you can picture me fidgeting and all that.
Anyway, she turned me down " Oh, Im so sorry, I cant".
But that was like 2 weeks ago and I havent gotten over her! I think she's the most incredibly beautiful girl I've ever seen and Im basically infatuated at her sight.
i can't stop thinking about her!But since she turned me down, I'm not sure whether to move on or give it an another shot.
What should I do? Please don't be vague, and all answers are appreciated alot. Thanks
2007-02-19 15:10:38 · 32 answers · asked by thats it 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cupid hit you hard in the right spot.! Send her some flowers, and tell her that she is the most beautiful woman that you have ever saw, and that you want to give it one more try, and ask her out again.. if she turns you down again...Then tell her that you hope that she will enjoy the flowers, be nice about it, and if she gets nasty about you asking again, then you know that she wasn't the right woman for you.! Give it some time and remain friends, she just might have second thoughts and take you up on it someday.!!
2007-02-19 15:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Diana J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 - if you just met her then I would definitely advise you to be persistent. She also might be a little weary of going on a date alone with someone she doesn't know really well (which is understandable these days) so hanging out or something might be less pressure and less of a risk for her. If she's as pretty as you say she probably has guys asking her out a lot so you need to show her that you aren't like all the rest and that you want to get to know her not just bang her.
#2 - if you have known this girl for a while then I would re-evaluate the situation. I mean if you're friends and she said no then I'd take that as a no. If you're just kinda friends then I'd say just give it some time and get to know her (like #1)
2007-02-19 15:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her answer was a definite 'No' in girlspeak. You being a nervous wreck screamed insecurity and lack of confidence and that is the biggest possible turnoff for women. Move on, forget about this girl. And next time you ask someone out, just relax or it will go just as badly.
2007-02-19 15:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound harsh but coming from a girl. She wasn't interested so therefore you should not ask her out, you don't want her to think you are stalking her. Find yourself a nice girl who will appreciate what you have to offer.
It was great that you had the guts to ask her out and, now put all that practice to good use and ask someone else out, sometimes it takes a lot of rejections to find that special someone. don't always look for beauty there is a ruby among all those diamonds. I hope you understand what I mean.
Sometimes the ruby shines brigher than the diamond. Keep that in mind.
2007-02-19 15:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You would want to try again. You should bring up to her that she said, "I can't" and find out why she couldn't. Maybe she just had something going on that day. Maybe she has a boyfriend. There had to be some reason why she said "she couldn't". To be brutally honest, it may be that she is just not interested in you. But if i were you, i would try again. Maybe in writing so you don't have to face her? Hmm. i wish i could ask her for you....
Best wishes!
2007-02-19 15:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by fair blue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she had a real reason on why she couldn't. Or maybe shew as just trying to be pollite. Maybe you could have one of your friends ask her friends what she thinks about you..but remember that its not the end of the world if she's not into you. Sometimes people just don't click. And if she's not into you, you should probably give up now and try to forget about her before you get into her even more beacuase it will be harder to get over her.
2007-02-19 15:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That was a nice way of her saying she's not into you that way. I'm sorry- i know it is hard to put yourself out there and ask people out. Rejection is part of the dating game. I say move on and find another object of your affection. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-19 15:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by fchick_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all did she give a reason why? Maybe she really was busy. Try again maybe this time invite her on a group date. Maybe if you have mutual friends with her enlist one of them and their bf or gf to go. Might even have the other female ask her to come along. Group dates are easier.
2007-02-19 15:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by SiberianHusky_8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you try one more time? But this time, pull yourself together. Don't be nervous. We like cool guy, not nervous wreck.
If she still says no, well, there you go.
Another way is to get to know her better. Be her friend. Try to know her past her looks. When you're sure, then you can try again to ask her out.
Good luck...
2007-02-19 15:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by ira a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could ask again perhaps find out something she is interested in and maybe doing that may give her the ill give it a try.but,please remember not everyone will like the other and physical attraction is only part of the key to a successful relationship.
2007-02-19 15:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋