After a year of dating a certain girl, she and I decided it was time to brake up and parted ways. Me, the girl I was dating, and her friend all used to be very close, but now I don't know where we stand. I still see her in school with her friend but I don't know whether I should say hi or not. Sadly to say, I am starting to ignore them although I don't really want to, but I don't know what else to do. (I don't want to seem too desperate or weird by still clinging on to them 24/7) Any ideas? Thanks.
2007-02-19 15:07:02 · 16 answers · asked by losethisname 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel. Trust me I do. Best thing for me was to come a FINAL decision, not a part decision. You need to be sure if you dont want to be with her. Ibviously you're trying to figure out to say hi or bye, which means u still have some sort of feelings for her. If it's over, you need to cut the crap and move on from her period. If it's something u think can happen again then just accept the fact that you loose a good girl that well. I found out that way now I got back with her and I've never been happier.
2007-02-19 15:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Marcus M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 20:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a good idea to try and make new friends. You mentioned it was a year. Where are the friends you had before that. I hope that you did not **** them out. Hang out with a cousin or other relative. Sometimes that person can say " You know I know someone who would be good for you." If the ex and the friend say hi, then say hi also. But being on your own and sad makes you seem desperate and kinda creepy.
2007-02-19 15:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by ccwife2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard when you've broken up and go to the same school, seeing her everyday..but you said you both decided it was time to break up...You should still say Hi, how are you?...but I would suggest NOT hanging out with her and her friend as you both have moved on, that would be awkward.
Since you parted on a mutual understanding....it's still Ok to talk with her when you see her..You did date for a year... She may be feeling awkard to and not know how to act when you're close by., so let her know...you both can remain friends..by saying Hi...and asking how she's doing? what's new? etc* Once she knows how you're acting...she'll be able to relax and do the same*
GOODLUCK*~
2007-02-19 15:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both broke up for a reason and decided to move along, but that doesn't mean you have to stop talking to ex or her friend. Say hi and begin a conversation but don't be with them 24/7. Also talk to your friends and go out and meet other people.
2007-02-19 15:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by 18forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself! Give yourself some time to get over it then go back to who u are, the real happy person you used to be. If they seem to be not bothered at all, why can't u? You don't to have cling on to them, after u recovered just be what u are, greet them! normally on the reserve effect they will come n approch you. Don't be bothered about how they think of you, you be ok! cheers!
2007-02-19 15:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by ChocGlico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... if you meet her in the hall with her hanging out with her friends, just say can i talk to you for a sec and tell her that you still want to be good friends with her and her other friends and just see how that goes. Otherwise if you don't want to do it in a verbly kind of way then you can just write her a letter saying how you feel and tell her to either talk to you or write you back. i hope it goes well, good luck!
2007-02-19 15:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kimzi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By ignoring them, you are just making things more awkward between the three of you. Maybe, you should just try to act cool about it, not desperate. Talk to them, not clingly like , as you said. Good Luckk !
2007-02-19 15:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue being friends. Its more fun! Cuz you kno her so well even u guys arnt together. Go hang out with them, i wont hurt a bit at all! N you do need some friends to hang out with!
2007-02-19 15:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to move on after a big relationship. if your starting to drift away from them, then just go with it. if they still wanted to be close (as in friends) with you, then they would be. i dont want to sound like a jerk, but it doesnt seem like either are interested in hanging out with you. i dont know the whole situation, but if it were me i would just let it go and find someone new
2007-02-19 15:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by cotir2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋