I have a boyfriend. weve been going out for around 1 month. and have went out before but hes been acting really werid lately. the other night we went to the movies and he was fine but then saturday night we went to the skating rink (wheels). he told me he wasnt feeling good. i let him hang out with his friends. but then i went over there cause he was alone and i was like whats wrong and he was like i just dont feel the same way anymore? and i was like what? and he got up and walked away... i love him but do i need to just move on? lately hes been acuseing me of cheating on him. but im not. i love him to much. its like hes just trying to find an excuse to leave him... but then he tells me hes sorry and that he loves me. but i just dont know what to do. help. please.
2007-02-19 15:04:31 · 11 answers · asked by Callay <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he told you he doesnt feel the same anymore..he means it! If you have only been seeing each other a month and he feels different then it is time to move on. As far as him saying you are cheating, most of the time the person accusing is the one doing it..Do yourself a favor and move on!
2007-02-19 15:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE!? after a month... that's like way too soon. The beginning of relationships should actually be the best, and if it's only been a month and he's starting to acuse you of doing things thats already a bad start. He should trust you and enjoy spending time with you. Maybe you should probably just move on for the best? Find somebody else who will still feel the same or like you even more after a month. Someone who cares about what you think or listens to what you have to say, always knows how to put a smile on your face and make, and loves you in return because a relationship takes two.
2007-02-19 15:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by JEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh can't you girls be a little forgiving if your man isn't perfect. So he gets overprotective of you and feels jealous sometimes, many guys do, no big deal. You are going to leave him for that? Are you serious? Your feelings for him must not be very strong? If I was the other man I would interpet that negatively and wouldn't want to be with you. What kind of prima donna are you? The guys has some obvious flaws so your just going to dump him, thats mean! You love him, but think you should just move on. If you want to dump him that easy you don't love him! You love him, but are unwilling to be patient with him and hang in there a couple more months, give me a break that isn't showing love for someone. I wouldn't even want someone as a friend who acted like that.
2007-02-19 15:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to move on. he told you that he wasnt feeling the same anymore. what else is he supposed to do? he's being nice about it for now so i suggest you leave it alone. when a person doesnt seem to get the hint then the person will be mean afterwhile. then how would you feel? accept that it didnt work out and move on. the only reason he apologizes after accusing you of things is because you wont take the hint and then he feels sorry for you. your only hurting yourself by staying.maybe you can try at a lter date with this, but for now.......get to steppin!
2007-02-19 15:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you talk to him about your relationship,and make him explain to you why he's acting the way he is.From my experience it sounds like he wants to end the relationship with you.Guys can never find away to end their relationships,they think of all kinds of stupid excuses instead of just saying they don't think things are working out and they don't want to be tied down with one person.He probably cares about you and doesn't want to hurt you. Just because people want to break up,doesn't mean that they don't still have feelings for the person it just means they want to move on and experience other things.That's why most people go back and forth with their ex's because those feelings are still there.So I suggest you have that talk with him and ask him if he wants to break up,sometimes if your the one who says it,it makes it easier for them to do it,this way they don't feel like their hurting you as much because you brought up the question.Good luck
2007-02-19 15:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been through a similar situation.
i know how he feels
give him time and space
he does feel bad for leaving you but he just doesn't love you as strongly as you love him
and you dont want to be in a relationship like that
so its is best.
dont move on quite yet
but you can still keep an eye out for someone if ya want
2007-02-19 15:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by emile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 08:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems like hes being a little girl about it. tell him to grow up if hes serious. and if he wants a way out let him leave... or force him to leave if hes to much of a man to do it himself
2007-02-19 15:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by cotir2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys sound young and he probably doesn't know what he wants. Dump his sorry butt! If he comes crawling back, it was meant to be.
2007-02-19 15:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by Julie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how he feel and talk to him why he always want to leave you.GOOD LUCK
2007-02-19 15:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by ღ_Chrome_ღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋