I take care of each one of them but, i feel like my life is a waste of time.
2007-02-19 14:52:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
enjoy your time with them. my boyfriend is 29 with 5 kids, 4 different mothers, including me and our daughter, not a days goes by where he wishes he could spend more time with them, which is not possible because he works so much to pay his child support. his life is literally dedicated to them. you might feel like that now, but imagine if they weren't in your life, could you really imagine yourself without them, i doubt it. and when those children grow up and respect you enough to still call you daddy because you were there for them you will realize that what you are doing isn't a waste.
2007-02-19 15:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by baileysmommy06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waste of time? I'm sure you don't regret any of them, but looking back on it, you probably would do things a little differently. I am 27 and don't think i could handle kids right now...want to focus on myself and have some fun. Your life is no waste of time...you are bringing up our future and i commend you for taking care of them. But please don't have any more until you get married...you will just slump into a deeper depression...in fact maybe you should talk to someone about this feeling
2007-02-19 22:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Do you work? Do you spend time with each of your children? You should try getting all your kids on the same day so they can know eachother. I used to date this dude who had 3 kids from 3 different ladies. He would get them all at the same time, plus that way he had more free time. Having so many kids motivated him to work really hard to provide for them.
2007-02-19 22:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by texas mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always best to go to the pros about stuff like this, but I say, you have 3 children!!! How could that be a waste of time? Sounds like you are a very important person in this world.....
2007-02-19 22:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking care of your children is NOT a waste of time. You need to help the mothers raise your children to become productive members of society. Having children is a blessing.
2007-02-19 22:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is your life a waste of time? Is it because you have to work to support those kids?
Do you get to spend time with them? If you do then plan outings with them, start hobbies that they'd be interested in. Musical instruments, trains....
Don't feel sorry for yourself. You've been given 3 gifts, learn to enjoy them.
2007-02-19 23:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need a goal!! You sound like you're already doing great things by taking care of your children, but obviously that's not fulfilling enough for you. Have you finished school? Do you have a great job? Do you have a hobby? Find out what would make you feel like you're doing something productive and work towards doing it.
2007-02-19 22:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do you think your kids feel your life is a waste of time? being needed is one of the best thing to be. it may be hard because it is very exuasting to take care of children,im sure they are all very young,but in the end you will be rewarded by being there hero.and i would imagine i wouldnt need to remind you that it is time to start practicing safe sex....third time is a charm!
2007-02-20 03:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by computerdummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear of a condom?do you know for sure the kids are yours?i hope you had paternity test otherwise you could pay child support for many years on kids that arent even yours.that can ruin your life too.i know someone who every time he had a girlfriend even if she were already pregnant the dummy wanted to play daddy how stupid he pays support on 4 kids $300 a week only 1 of them is his the one never saw till she was 7 years old.if you dont straighten this out it will only get worse.and use some common sense dude .ever hear of aids or other diseases?
2007-02-19 23:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start using condoms? and take care of the kids you have. At least you arent a single mother trying to raise them all alone.
2007-02-19 23:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by cherokee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋