Ive truely met the girl of my dreams and within the past 6 months, we have become best friends. No sooner than that, did each of us begin having feelings for the other, however now we face the dilemma of phasing from an amazing friendship to what could potentially be a fairytale relationship. I have welcomed this progression 100%, unfortunately she seems to be quite weary and seems to be particularly worried about hurting our friendship. So i ask in the event she decides not to progress forward, do i simply accept her decision or should i fight for us? Do i tell her she means the world to me; do i give her time and hide my feelings from her; should i simply move on and forget what could be??? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Its been driving me nuts.
2007-02-19 14:48:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe that you should always fight for your dream girl.
the best thing you can do is tell her how you feel.
the worst thing you can do is not tell her how you feel.
2007-02-19 14:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! she needs the reassurance that this is real. maybe you could make a pact or some sort of promise to never let any akward situations or fights get in the way! you guys are going to have to keep the relationship and FRIENDSHIP in perspective. its crucial! the problem with most relationships today is that they lose sight of whats most important to them. just tell her that exactly! tell her that no matter what, lovers or not, we are friends. friends first, lovers second. good luck! and fight on!
2007-02-19 15:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually in case you wan to this element... do it in the previous you already know her on a perfect acquaintances vibe... i knew a gilr for 10 and a nil.5 years ... sort my infants till i replaced into sixteen tremendously lots.. a month later we broke up and that i will particularly look her in the attention... she could look your dream woman and he or she could be yet learn her strikes in direction of you alittle extra then you definitely could often... in the event that they sense like she has some feeling for you sit down and confer together with her on a severe point... yet while she appears like a chum cherish being together with her... you under no circumstances understand while a solid element will pass away. ~Quin.
2016-12-17 14:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by hayakawa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Fight or her. It may not work out, but you will never have to ask yourself years down the road if you hould have.
I'll say a prayer for you.
2007-02-19 14:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by farmgirl322 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋